Woman newscaster in Iran MUST wear kerchief, does anything about this bother you
@flowerchilde (12529)
United States
April 2, 2007 8:10am CST
If I HAD to wear a kerchief and didn't want to, I would be greatly affected! I understand laws for decency.. no problem, and even think it's advisable for the sake of society and safety of women and children.. but to HAVE TO wear a kerchief, I would not like it! OR what if I had to cover myself from head to toe.. and pretend I'm not even there?? Yet the media, to me, seems to be siding with all this.. Yet indecency in democratic countries is highly lauded.. Go Figure! They do not appear to care two bits about women's rights and woman abuse.
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@nicolec (2671)
• United States
2 Apr 07
You know the saying 'when in rome do as the romans'. it's the same concept. When you are in another country you do what is done in that country. Whether you like it or not. In Lima Peru women do not wear shorts. So I had to walk about that hot city in long pants. Did I like it, no. But that is what that culture demands for. So I did it.
In France it's considered rude to brush your hair in public. And they don't eat cows in India. Each country has it's thing and as a visitor you should do your best to abide by those customs.
Now I'm not saying I agree with how they treat women. All I'm saying is that while that is still the case, when you are in that country you put a kercheif on your head.
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
2 Apr 07
You said this so much better than I did, "when in Rome do as the Romans". I did not know that about brushing your hair in France and I know some people who live in France thank you for this information.
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@nicolec (2671)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Well you make a good point. Hopefully though these people won't get their way. They can ask all they want, but hopefully that's as far as it goes.
And what does islam have to do with dogs? Or is that cab drivers just don't want smelly dogs in their cars. Because that I can understand.
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
2 Apr 07
..hmmm, maybe I should have phrased it "if they implemented a dress code in our (own) country, would we mind?"
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Just my opinion but I think if newscaster or anyone else goes to another country they should out of respect for the country follow their traditions and laws. I think that too often people think they should be allowed to go to other countries and just do what ever they wish to do. I am sure a newscaster, female, going to Iran would have known this before going and it was her decision to go. I would think that she would be able to do her job much better if she did follow the tradition of covering herself and would be more accepted in the country. All countries are different and I don't think one is necessarily better or more right than another.
I think we all know that women's rights are not existent in some countries but a women newscaster making a big deal about wearing a kerchief is NOT going to change the country - they will only ignore her or force her to leave the country.

@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Yes and what's really sad is these same people who think they can go to other countries and do what ever they want are also the same ones who will complain the loudest when others come to America and don't speak English or 'eat strange foods' or 'dress weird'...
I am proud to be an American but I must say I am not proud of all Americans.
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@nicolec (2671)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Well, truth be told, i am one of those people who screams when people don't speak english and live here. It's one thing if you are on holiday and are a tourist. But if you live in this county, you should learn the language. And speak the language.
But that's because it's my country. When I travel, I realize I am going to some one elses country. I have a friend who was in the navy. he would tell me that when he and his navy buddies would be in a different country he always got good treatment and they were branded 'dumb amarican's'. The difference? they acted like Americans. He acted like a human being.
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@fizzytom (752)
• Maribor, Slovenia
2 Apr 07
I would have no problem with having to cover up if required to.
In fact I was in some quite conservative parts of Turkey last year and I couldn't have my shoulders uncovered or wear shorts. I didn't find it an incovenience and just accepted it and did what was required.
I am not sure what you are actually arguing - for womens's rights or against having to cover up in a strict Muslim country?
You don't have to go to these places after all.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
2 Apr 07
...what I meant to say is it would bother me to have to wear a kerchief if I didn't want to.. keeping my shoulders and legs covered actually would be no problem.. I would wear the kerchief, but wanted to know if I would be the only one bothered by having to do so.. If I chose to do so, that would be fine, and likely I would choose to do so out of respect, but if I was unaware, say, and some one demanded or seemded to demand it "it would bother me" even though I wouldn't make a fuss. I wouldn't visit however because I am aware of it, and other things.. The newscaster is a brave gal being there. I never imagined or thought she should object..
..just asking who it would bother and not.. LIke if our country implemented a dress code, would we mind?
:))
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Are you telling me what I was thinking? I acknowledge that my headline was misleading.. an accidental error.. my assuming all women of the country MUST wear them, and how would I feel if this was imposed upon me in my daily life, and not just a day or week, etc, visit.. but a life time observance with no choice in the matter.. I'm puzzled how some of us in the capital of women's lib cannot recognize the feeling I was having..(??)
@fizzytom (752)
• Maribor, Slovenia
3 Apr 07
What your own country does is irrelevant to your question. You asked about having to wear a headscarf in a Muslim country - I really don't see what the big problem would be. I wore a headscarf in Turkey to enter the mosque and would have done anywhere else it might have been required. I think you need to make the distinction between tourist or visitor and ordinary person in that country.
To be honest i think you are making too much of this. I cannot see what you find so hard about it

@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 Apr 07
Terribly oppressive. And it makes me very sad and depressive, imagine like you said to go through live covered from head to toe, and really leading a live as a black shadow, peeking at the world outside! But here is a chance for them to stand up and demand their rights, but I'm afraid it will take years to shed that type of doctrine
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@Karmalina (647)
• Australia
3 Apr 07
I don't believe they're trying to oppress women by making them wear this as a newscaster. They make western women wear nice conservative outfits too. There are a lot of people with a lot of different personalities watching the news. So, I'd assume they have a standard sort of dress code for the newscasters (both male and female). I don't think that making women wear the kerchiefs is necessarily fair in the first place, but a news station that broadcasts everywhere would be expected to be a little conformist and stick with the standards don't you think?
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@EvanHunter (4026)
• United States
2 Apr 07
This is where I wish I had over 500 post already so I could cut and paste. There is a video on youtube by madtv where they are impersonating news people in the middle east. I tried to type it out but I failed. Its pretty funny. But anyways in the past both christian and Jewish societies both have had the woemn wear some sort of hajib (headdress). Even today there are some societies or sects of jewish and christians that still do. I do find it strange that the Tuareg Muslims have the men wear it instead of the women. I dont know what there practice is now though with some of there Muslim brother looking down so hard on this.
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
2 Apr 07
...I saw the newscasts and assumed she had to wear it.. but perhaps she wore it out of courtesy, which is the right thing.. I was thinking along the lines of - If I, had to have a certain dress code, in my everyday life, that would suck! As I am a nonconformist.. of course in this country I would probably have to wear less! No more covering up ladies! Against the law.. Big brother/or sister gone awry.. [And I only wrote sister cause it would be a woman's issue.]
:))
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@estherlou (5015)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Did you ever watch the tv show JAG? I remember a show where they went to talk to an Arab businessman and she had to wear a head dress over her marine uniform and walk behind Commander Rabb. She was irritated also, but our military tends to stress adhering to the cultures of the country you happen to be in. I'm more shocked at the seizure than at making the women wear scarves. At least they appear to be healthy and well taken care of!
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
24 Jul 07
well we all know that iran is a very religious Muslim country, and there is no other way.
we are talking in different terms here, and it is not a question of right or wrong, there is no real democracy there.
I would focus on staying alive there and getting out of iran as soon as possible if i do not agree with her religious rules.
No. i do not think that i would want to wear kerchief in any point, but we are not talking about what i want or thinks, but on what i am required to do.
Do you understand what i am trying to say?
That is another reason why i as a person would not ever want or can live in one of this extreme religious countries.
Here in israel we have alote of religious people, and we do respect each other, but we certainly do not tell each other what we can do or can not.
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
2 Apr 07
its not my culture
I'm not gonna judge it
one way or another
I realize I know less than nothing about it
if I had a business and somebody had that, I would probly hire her anyway, I would be lookin at could she do the job or not, how she dressed is her business, not mine
same for yamulkas
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
29 May 07
I think some women in other cultures are severely oppressed and don't feel bad about disagreeing with it.. If they wear a yamulka or burka because they want to.. great.. but if they have to (their culture or worse laws demand it) and it's not their choice, that should make all people outraged, as that's just the seen oppressions, what goes on unseen? I think women/people of all cultures should have rights and freedom. People raising their voices about apartheid, helped bring it to an end.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
2 Apr 07
If someone want to come as newscaster on news media like CNN, BBC, wearing jeans, short skirts, low cut shirts, lingerie or even naked and CNN, BBC don't allow, would you find it oppressive on CNN's or BBC's part?
My dear! every professional institution has it's own rules and regulations and dress codes regardless of country. even within a country, rules may vary in different institutions. when you sign a contract with a company, you are apprised of the rules and regulations as well as dress codes, if you don't like it, you can simply walk away and refuse the job. No body is gonna force you to accept the job. now if you have agreed to the terms and conditions then i don't see it disturbing, bothering or oppressive at all.
about the women's rights, i don't see many people who are aware of actual conditions and status outside of their country. the media usually provides a picture that goes with the government's policy specially when country involved is considered an enemy. in Iran, majority of the normal woman thinks that American women are oppressed and are not given proper and due rights. when you see it from their eyes you will see a completely different picture. so we just need to see the things in right perspective. you may disagree with me but that's what my view is. Best of luck.
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@Grillmama (294)
• United States
2 Apr 07
They are paying respect to the countries beliefs so that they can get the story out. Otherwise they may not be able to show us how the people are treated.













