How to REJECT a girl..
By hawick
@hawick (645)
Singapore
October 18, 2006 10:25pm CST
your female friend likes you, but you dont. How do you tell her that without hurting her feelings?
42 responses
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
19 Oct 06
Talk to her heart to heart...Let her realize that u can only offer her friendship coz thats what u really feel about her. Tell her if u give her a chance, it will mean u are taking advantage of the situation that she is inlove with you and thats foul.
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
19 Oct 06
lol so this is a real topic, isnt it? I just hope it will turn out good though it means u might hurt her but she must not be waiting for nothing......
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
22 Oct 06
Maybe you should tell her you need a little space. if you really like her. Don't hurt her feelings let her down easy. tell her you want to see other people. or just tell her you don't want to see her everyday.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
23 Oct 06
Honesty is the best policy; friends should be able to be honest with each other. If you are affraid your friendship will suffer from this, tell her how you feel about that.
That you do want to still be friends and you feel terrible about what you have to say, and you never want to hurt her.
I agree you should not flirt with her, but you allready answered that question so I won't go on about that.
I hope everything works out for the best, she'll thank you in the long run; even when it's hard to face the music.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
23 Oct 06
That's good to hear, I guess that means everything has worked out? I'm very happy to hear that :)
@damonlady (574)
• Romania
23 Oct 06
cause i'm a girl i'll tell u how i see things. it's true that honesty is a good way but if u tell me that u don't like me to be yr gf i start wondering why... what did i do wrong, am i not beautifull, am i that bad? i'm stupid.. and a lot of question of this kind. so here what advices i can give u:
1. u don't like me just don't say it. if i come on u well u can make a joke and make a step back (that way we r still friends cause at some point i'll get tired of hitting on u:))
2.or u can just say: i'll marry u someday...just waiting the day..and start laughing -women do get scared by that(men also)
3. u can pretend i never said a thing.. u know..like as u didn't get it.. and i'll think u r stupid... but we r still friends...
well for the moment this r the things that came in my mind, hope i've been for some help:P see ya(don't dump me like that, i'll kick yr butt:)) hehehe)
@hawick (645)
• Singapore
23 Oct 06
well, i'd acted blur for quite sometimes, about 2 months, and i dun think its nice to just keep quiet whenever she asked the same question.
Further more, she knows she's not the type of gals that i like..so, instead of letting her wait, why not just stop all the wait and be friends like usual?
@damonlady (574)
• Romania
23 Oct 06
what in the god's name is that question? tell me... : do we get together? or what....if that's so.. just tell her when u'll grow up.. but put a smile on yr face and leave it that way if not .. oh boy... if u offend her she might say u came on her not her on u .. and who knows what else
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
19 Oct 06
be honest and straight to the point its better to find out the truth
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
19 Oct 06
so what are you saying here lie to her i think its better to be honest dont lead her on and as for your guilt trip keep it to your self you idiot
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
19 Oct 06
i did and im guilty i read your post as being directed at me and i was wondering why .but obviously i have made a mistake so im sorry for that.unless you start a new responce i get the email and yes i thought it was directed at me and responded as such.any way after this rudeness on my part i hope to see you again in here some time have a nice day.(maddog bows his head and slowly walks off) sorry
@bridgeforyouindia (545)
• India
20 Oct 06
tell her that she deserve much more better person than you and pretend yourself to be bad thats it
@moneymoney (789)
• India
19 Oct 06
shez yuor friend right? then talk to her directly. she'll understand.
@moneymoney (789)
• India
20 Oct 06
All the best....It takes a lot of effort to say something like that....
@enigma2core (137)
• India
23 Oct 06
The way of handling such situation is dependent on the girl and urself too!
If the girl is carefree, u can be honest and upfront.
If she is shy and gentle, u might have to tread the path slowly,
If she is pestering kinds, Just avoid her & keep talking abt ur present gf to her,
If she is hot & Intellegent..Dnt reject man!!
Cheers
@zubair439 (3183)
• India
19 Oct 06
in this way it can help and worked without hurting her,and i hope she understands u ... best of luck
@hari_theloyolite (315)
• India
22 Oct 06
i dont know bcoz i hav no xperience..but a piece of advice from this humble person..." u dont have any right to hurt others"!
@hawick (645)
• Singapore
22 Oct 06
Nobody has the right to hurt anyone.
come on, if u dun hav this experience, please dun say it as if i had hurt somebody.
do u think u will be happy if somebody say she wana be with you and u have to be with her because u have no rights to hurt her?
Come on, i just dun understand why would u think this way
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@kapil_chetri (540)
• India
21 Oct 06
i am leaving the country tomorrow..hope to see you very soon..bye..
@nickel1191 (2790)
• India
20 Oct 06
Fortunately or unfortunately i have never been in such a stuation........so i have no idea how to reject a girl....all i can suggest is that try to find out if her love is true....because its always better to go for the giel who loves you rather than the girl you love...
@w1ssam (488)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
21 Oct 06
Don't lie to her an hurt her by leavnbg her later, reject her and tell her that you have someone you love, and that you don't want her to hate you because of that respond.. and that you want to stay her friend and to make sure that you will not lose her friendship ... cry if you can ^_^
