Did you tell all your secrets to your bestfriends? why?

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@katzkii (140)
Philippines
April 4, 2007 3:21am CST
Did all of you guys, revealed all your secrets to your best friends or your buddies? Personally,I have no courage to tell them...as long as I did not lied to them.
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• Philippines
10 Apr 07
My life is an open book to all of my trusted friends they know more about me than my family :D but of course there are things that we should reserve and keep for ourselves.
@zing_i (269)
• United States
5 Apr 07
Yes I dont really belive in secrects I do tell everything in my life to someone or the other, I guess if u have some secrect in ur life then u have to hide it too, and take care thatno one comes to know and stuff which is too much to handle..
• United States
5 Apr 07
i tell my best friend a lot, but not everything. when we were younger, i told her everything. back then, it was all about me. now, i have to keep in mind that i am married and a lot of the things i talk about have to do with my husband. i have to be respectful of his privacy. yes, i tell her how i feel and my thoughts, but i dont tell her every little detail of every little thing that goes on. its always great to have that one person that really knows you. she is that friend. we have been friends for over 10 years, and i can honestly say that she is the person that knows me the best. she would know what i would say or do in certain siturations.
@joanna08 (394)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
i really wanted my bestfriend to know everything but i think its not appropriate. inshort, i dont her everything... there are somethings that i prefer to keep within myself. maybe its part of preserving the "self" side. best friendships also have limitations like all things and relationships in this world. secrets are one of them. :))
@gwendovere (1279)
• United States
4 Apr 07
No, not all of them. First of all, it depends on the person. How open-minded are they? How much do they really need to know? And how much can they handle? I'm very open with a few of my friends ~ ones who've been through a lot of the same things I've been through. But there are others who I'm not as open with. I enjoy being around them, they're fun to be with, or whatever ~ but I either know they can't handle knowing everything ~ or I don't know what they'll think about it & I don't want to risk the friendship. There are some things that I don't share with anyone at all. If there's something I need to talk about, but I don't want my real-life friends to know, I find a support group or a therapist... or sometimes I'll tell people I've met online. But I'm careful not to share "too much" with online pals ~ because I've never met them in person & don't necessarily know what their true intentions are.
• India
4 Apr 07
revealings some secrets is good because it doesn't burden you much. may be you get a positive thought from your buddy and get encouraged