How do you feel about people have tendency to judge orther by outer look?

@dpauli (407)
Indonesia
April 4, 2007 5:41am CST
Do you think it is normal to have a tendency like that,and if you also have that tendency? Is it good or bad? How you overcome a tendency like that?
2 responses
@Darkwing (21583)
4 Apr 07
I don't think many people have the tendency to judge by outer looks... maybe that will be the first attraction, but it's that moment when the eyes meet and you realise what a person is like inside that really makes up your mind. Beauty is only skin deep, and most glamorous people are empty shells. It's the ones with the love deep down in their souls which are best. The honest, reliable, trustworthy, truthful, caring and sharing people who can hold an intelligent conversation with you and make you laugh, are the people who succeed in friendships and love. Brightest Blessings.
@dpauli (407)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 07
Your response really touch me. What a nice tought. Yeah, we sould learn compassion to other people. One person who has done it; for example; Mother Theresa. She really full of caring to disregarded people.
@4cuteboys (4099)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I dont know, I try not to judge based on looks, but sometimes it just happens. I feel bad about it though, it makes me feel shallow and lame because really no one should be judged on how they look good or dont look good. I dont know if it's even possible to overcome that, I think it's just a natural reaction.
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@dpauli (407)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 07
Yeah, that's what I feel too. I've tried not to judge based on outer looks, but sometimes still that's the first reaction; I realized it or not. Thanks for your response