Friendship After Divorce

United States
April 4, 2007 9:07am CST
Is it a smart idea to build a friendship after divorce, even when there is no children involved. And is it ever really possible?
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• United States
4 Apr 07
I don't know whether it's a smart idea or not, as that largely depends on the circumstances of the split to begin with. Sometimes a clean break is the best for both parties. Yes, though, friendship after divorce IS possible. My father and his second wife stayed close friends after their divorce, and even went into business together. They got along beautifully, as long as they weren't married.
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• United States
4 Apr 07
Sometimes I think the clean break would be best, but then things come up and my ex and I start talking. He has completely been a different person now that he goes his way and I go mine. Thank you for you opionion. I'm just kinda of confused.. Have a wonderful day
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@keya2468 (289)
• India
4 Apr 07
I don't understand what do u mean? do u want to continue friendship with the ex husband ? if it is yes then in my opinion it is impossible. also it is not good for ur health. becoz the lady has taken divorce from her hubby becoz that man has some serious problem. there is no reason to keep any relation with that man after divorce.
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• United States
4 Apr 07
I can understand what you mean about it potetially being unhealthy. Thank you for your insight I will bare it in mind.
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4 Apr 07
When my ex husband and I were divorced we made a point of staying in touch and remaining friends. There was no animosity between us and we still remain friends. My son knows that his Dad and i have a good friendship and it has all been very civilised.
• United States
4 Apr 07
Thank you for the positive response. Divorce in a whole seems so confusing. Have a great day
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• Canada
28 Apr 07
It all depends on how the relationship ended if you ended it on good terms adn respectful of each other yes but if there is deciet and lies then no.