Are you a jealous person?

@stacyv81 (5904)
United States
April 4, 2007 10:23am CST
I am, I dont really know why, I am very territorial, and dont like when someone threatens me. Even if the girl isnt cute, I just hate it. I am secure in myself and my relationship, but I dont ever trust the other girls intentions. I trust him, so I guess I shouldnt be jealous, but I dont like other girls thinking they can get what I have. I dont know, I have been trying to work on it, and tend to keep my thoughts and emotions on it to myself, but I cant help but to feel that way.
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@carlena1 (120)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Does your man know you have jealous tendencies? Try to work on that, because a lot of guys find security attractive in a woman. also, did he ever cheat on you ? If he did, well this is all his fault, and you may never heal unless you leave him for an honest man. If he didn't your paranoia is destined to destroy your happiness with him. Try Pampering yourself. Dye your hair or perhaps some other dramatic change for yourself only!!!!!
@stacyv81 (5904)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Yes, he knows, he does too, but he just laughs at me, no he has never cheated that I know of...He is just very sociable, and loves attention, so that is part of it.
• Canada
4 Apr 07
I am not jealous of what others own or who they are but don't like when my husband is out all night with his friends that some of them happen to be girls who are only after one thing . I don't trust them and so although I am not jealous do get mad as I know what could happen . I do worry they will try to hook up with my husband . I try not to be this way but have been hurt many times in the past from this very thing and after so many times of getting hurt by the same thing you start to worry about what will happen . I don't consider this being jealous as I in no way wish to be this person , just don't want them doing something that would just plain hurt someone else as I would never do this to someone :)
@stacyv81 (5904)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Well, I understand that, that is what I mean. Jealous of time your guy spends with other woman, or something, not wanting to be them. I am the same way, I dont trust the women and their intentions.
• United States
4 Apr 07
no it is a waste of engry
@bad1981 (799)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I am territorial with what belongs to me such as my husband and kids. not really jealous but very protective over what is mine. My husband knows alot of females and that doesnt bother me as long as when we see them in public they arent overly friendly because that pisses me off.
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
I guess it's ok not to trust other girls around your man, unless you really know them. Don't let them make you feel jealous every time though, it will rob you of your peace of mind and if your guy finds out, it might send him guy the wrong impression about you. Be confident because you have him, he is trustworthy, and you have qualities that those girls don't have. Nobody, not even Angelina Jolie, can make you feel jealous unless you allow them. But keep that eye open and continue to be on guard.... Some girls are nasty.