Can exs be friends??

My answer is it depends. I usually put in the effort to keep in touch. Some have disappeared into thin air, some just friend and 1 has become really close friend with me. I share stuffs with him. I realized that we are better off as friends than lovers because I feel freer to share things with him now.

I think most friends can become good lovers, but it is not to be true that all the good lovers needed to be good friends. Same thing applies for the exlovers. They need not be good friends, but it is not rule that exlovers will not become good friends. There are lots of cases in which exlovers becomes very good friends. I think it depends on the mind set of the people and also the depth of the relation and what each person thinks.

Sure its possible! I've remained friends wiht pretty much all my ex's minus two of them....I couldnt see why being friends woudnt be possible...we were friends before hand so why not after the fact?

I think it is possible, but that will depend on what kind of relationship you have and how long have you been together. At first, it may be difficult to accept him/her as a friend if you still feel the pain of breakup, but when you get over it, it'll be easier.