Pay it forward

@ausnikki (4054)
Brisbane, Australia
April 5, 2007 6:47am CST
Has anyone heard this term before? Basically it means that if a stranger does something nice for you out of the blue,you should pay it forward and do something for someone else.Has anyone here payed it forward?.I was at a milk bar one day and an elderly person was buying some milk and bread and they were a few dollars short on their payment.Even though I was short of money myself at the time I payed the difference for them.The elderly person asked me why I would do that for a complete stranger.I told them that someone had done that for me once and I really wanted to pay it forward.It gives you a great feeling to do something to help someone.The world would be a much better place if more people were willing to pay it forward!
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12 responses
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
5 Apr 07
Yes I have heard of this saying before about pay it forward, I have done this a couple of times in my life as well. I also have helped out complete strangers and don't they get a surprise and wonder why you are helping them out but then again later it has happened to me and someone has said when I was short here is a dollar so that I could buy the item so it pays off when you are kind of others.
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
6 Apr 07
It does pay off.Good things always return to you.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
25 Apr 07
Hi ausnikki your so right about paying it forward. I like it. I think that was really sweet of you to help that elderly person. I hope your around when I am alittle short too.LOL Your definetly right about giving you a great feeling. It does. And yes it really would be a better place if more people were willing to pay it forward.
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
1 May 07
Hi Terry,it takes so little effort to help other people and it does get returned to you one way or another.If I'm around to help I would offer you a few dollars if you need it lol.
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
12 Apr 07
Gee there you go Nikki it just goes to show that you are a lovely caring person indeed
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
12 Apr 07
Awww thank you _hope_ I appreciate the compliment.You are a lovely, caring person yourself and I know you do pay it forward. big hugs xxx
@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
21 Apr 07
yeah I have done it befor a few times I am always willing to help somebody in need so to say Pay it forward... It is a great feeling... I have seen the movie too which I thought was fantastic.....
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
1 May 07
I always think (even though times have been bad for me lately) there are always people worse off than me,and if I can help them I will.What's a few cents,right?.
@patootie (3592)
12 Apr 07
I;ve never heard this particular expression before .. but it sounds a bit like the UK equivalent of 'what goes around comes around' .. and if someone does something good for someone else then in turn they find something good happens to them .. and the reverse of course if it's a bad thing .. All my life I have always stepped in and offered to help out where needed ... and you never know when you might need a few pennies yourself ..
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
12 Apr 07
It basically means the same thing patootie.It's wonderful that you are willing to help out strangers.It appears not many people do these days.
@suzzs02 (631)
• United States
21 Apr 07
this is one of the best post i hae seen yet, thank you for posting it, have you ever seen the movie pay it forward?? if not i wuld recommend it to you it is an old one but great movie... i try to do something good every day, the one thing i do the most is pray for other people, and they usualy dont even know im praying for them some i dont even know, like every time i see someone broke down on the road, i pray that god will watch over them , help them get back on hte road, safe and send good help soon, and that the car does'nt need much repairs, it sounds like a big prayer but i've been paraying that one for four years, and i think its what keeps me from breaking down, seeing as thats a big fear of mine, and i also pray before i leave home, and have had many incidents where we have almost got hit or someone wrecked right in front of us and if we'd been a few min sooner it wuld have been us. so i bless others with my prayers and i feel greatly blessed in return myself God is wonderful....
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
1 May 07
Thank you for the lovely compliment suzzs,I appreciate it!.I haven't seen the movie but will look out for for it.I think I need you to pray for me,my car has broken down lol.It's good to see that others do pay it forward too :)
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
5 Apr 07
Yes I have done this before a couple of times and one was a child He was a bit of money Short and I felt sorry for him as he did not know what to put back so I helped him out lol He was very happy and said thank you
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
5 Apr 07
LOL that's wonderful Gabs! It's nice to see that some do pay it forward
@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
5 Apr 07
Beautiful gesture and I wish we would do more of the same!
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
6 Apr 07
I agree,people need to be more giving!
@shoelover (896)
• Australia
5 Apr 07
that is a wonderful idea Nikki. Thankyou I will remember that.
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
5 Apr 07
You're very welcome shoelover! The world would be a much better place if people were willing to pay it forward.
• United States
5 Apr 07
Wow! Now, this is an old quote. You don't here it much sadly. Mainly, because no one does this anymore. I wish people would. I have done such things for nice people I meet... Well, as nice as they come I guess. Another thing that has slowly left us with time. O well, I am really glad to here there are some good people left in the world :)
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
5 Apr 07
It is an old quote but I think it's something that should come back.I'm so glad to hear that you do pay it forward.It is sad that alot of people don't do this anymore.Thank you for the compliment :)
@tommy408 (361)
• Malaysia
5 Apr 07
Now that's rarely heard of, no? You always hear about KARMA though. When you do good things, good things happen to you. This is like the other way around, right? Having said that, your story heart warming. Keep up doing good things to people.
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
5 Apr 07
Paying it forward has the same results as karma.What you put out you get back.I'm glad you enjoyed my story! :)
@cheezer (91)
• Singapore
5 Apr 07
Yah...when I was staying in Melbourne, someone passed me his bed (free) coz he has graduated and was leaving. I payed it forward by passing the bed to another student(free) when it's time for me to leave. On top of that, I sold my bookshelf, computer table, 2 portable heaters, 1 color printer, CD racks to the same person for A$100. The rest of the stuffs like laundry basket, Tefal kettle, cutlery sets...etc are free gifts.
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
5 Apr 07
Good for you for paying it forward.It makes the world a better place!