When people started talking nasty things about you...

If it's not going out of hand....normally, I'll just try to calm and ignored them but I certainly talk about it to my husband. I'll stand/sit next to the person that made the issue and pretended that nothing's happend and let people think that he/she just made it all up. I'm sure for people that know me better will not believe the nasty issues and will ask directly to me whether is true or not. The truth will come up eventually....besides we're living in the world where people talk about other people.......

nasty in a fun way ???? is she naked ??????? I would just turn around (if she was behind my back) if she is cute I would try to get with her, and be nasty too.......in a fun good pleasant way.

If someone started talking behind my back, and they have, I'd be hurt but I wouldn't care. If they're lies, then so be it. It's not truth and they can't prove anything by it. I don't worry too much about it.

I tell them straight ahead what I think too. If I meet someone that say bad things about other people I know that they say bad things about me when I'm not there.

I will not confront her. I will go on with my usual activity but show her that she's wrong in what she thought about me. I'm not a coward not trying to avoid confrontation but I've got to build up my strong defense before I move on and strike back at her.