"Unacceptable behavior on Mylot"
By paradisesuns
@paradisesuns (1755)
United States
April 6, 2007 2:16pm CST
I am very irritated and amazed over some peoples behavior here ....Why would some people actually target other people and just post negatives to their discussions? Is it because they have no life and just want to mess other people up to get their jollies? How childish! I would also like to say I do not have to get over 855 friends on my list in order to make money here,and then post stupid discussions that a parrot could respond to.I am disappointed that people treat others this way."I would suggest to people like this as I would suggest to a child....go play with someone else and somewhere else if you can't play nice!"
(By the way this person is not on my friends list...lol)
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
6 Apr 07
I am disappointed when these people do appear. We are a social group here and am not sure why others cannot or are unable to join in nicely. We can learn so much from each other and even give advice to help anyone live a bit better life. Sorry for your experience and Mylot should perhaps be notified. Good luck with this kind of thing.
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@paradisesuns (1755)
• United States
6 Apr 07
Unfortunately this person is one of the top users here & will probably keep doing this to this person and keep getting away with it...it's just hard to sit back and watch things like this happen.(It didn't happen to me, it happened to a friend of mine and this top user actually had this other person's discussion removed & I noticed this top user actually is making a point to follow this other person around and respond to the discussions very negative...I can't figure out why someone would do this to someone else)
@beaniefanatic13 (5076)
• Grand Junction, Colorado
7 Apr 07
I don't like to see this type of behavior here on mylot or anywhere for that matter. I don't think it's exceptable to be rude.
I hope that your friend is reporting this abuse to mylot admin. Mylot treats all members equally and it's against the guidelines to flame another member. It's also against the guidelines to follow a member around to just post negative comments to every discussion.
@paradisesuns (1755)
• United States
7 Apr 07
Yes I believe you are right.I cannot believe targeting someone and aiming negative replies toward them would be tolerated,and following someone around to do this would (I believe) would be concidered a form of stalking.Weird, huh? (And I can't figure out why)
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
8 Apr 07
I have found this to happen at times too..but not all the time..Seems people that target you are jealous of you for some reason..why..I don't know..Seems they feel if they put you down they will look a little better..people like this are suffering from low self esteem and are looking for recognition in a very wrong way.
I tend to fight it for awhile..which really gets you no where..I just keep hitting the ! button and explain that this user is continuing to upset my discussion.
Mylot has always responded and handled the situations I have brought to their attentions:)+
Happy Easter!
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@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
8 Apr 07
I have seen this a few times and it is terrible that people do such things. This has happened to me a couple of times with my posts where people would respond with negative and insulting statements. It is sad that people get a kick out of doing these things to others. There are some pretty immature people out there.
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@smacksman (6053)
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6 Apr 07
Sorry to hear you have had problems. I see someone else has started a self-help group on Yahoo to be able to communicate outside myLot to combat this sort of problem from sad little minds.
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@paradisesuns (1755)
• United States
6 Apr 07
It did not happen personally to me, but to a friend here.And I dispise rudeness & bulling, so that's why I started this discussion...maybe that person who did it would read this discussion and have some remorse...(sadly probably not though)...anyway what is the site url for this yahoo group you mentioned? I would be interested in dropping in to see what they have to say.If you like you can pm me the site url....Thank you & have a great day!(p.s. I like your avatar,I would love to have a boat I live on Maui...it would come in real handy...lol)
@primecrimson (1388)
• Philippines
6 Apr 07
I have read other people's works but it's very rare to find someone who posts negative comments to anyone. I don't know, maybe those people posts can be found in discussions like racism, religion or culture. I was intrigued why other people in here despises the Jews or why they are not too friendly on other people with different beliefs.
I hope that this kind of responses should not be tolerated because it destroys other people's reputation and dignity. If you find someone who is humilating other members here with harsh words then please report to an abuse or give them a negative rating.
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