Long-distance love affair... Does it really work??? How to make it work???

@cheribam (448)
United States
April 7, 2007 12:38am CST
When love is true, mountains can be climbed, obstacles can be conquered... IF THERE'S A WILL, THERE'S A WAY... But to survive love without touching, kissing and Fondling?... Is it just, I LOVE YOU with all my words, e-mails, pictures, cards, etc?Such a sacrifice... How can LOVE be so true???Please lend your views regarding long-distance love... thanks...
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@easyzheng (666)
• China
11 Apr 07
I used to believe long-distance love, but no long trust it. If you think you can maintain your love in long distance, you are wrong. You think it trustful and lasting just because your long-distance love actually doesn't keep you waiting for a long time. I experienced several long-distance love. Everytime I thought it would last forever. But after a certain period of time, we lost the passion and didn't feel love anymore; or just felt tired of the ever-lasting separation and said goodbye. Time is the killer for long-distance love.
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
I have been into long distance relationship before, man it was really hard. Also it is a bit torture. You love someone but then you can't see and even touch her. That's really a sacrifice. My long distance relationship only lasted for 6 months, for some reasons we have to stop. If one is only striving to make the relationship last well it won't work. I did my best but its a one way relationship. There was no effort on her part. I really love her but then it takes two to tango. And only to find out after we broke up. she had her new boyfriend after 2 months and he wasn't near either , it's another long distance relationship. I guess she never learned from her mistakes.
@uiwwitch (892)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Long distance relationship may or may not work, the same way if you and your partner are always together. Although I must admit that it takes a little bit more to make a long distance relationship work. It's a constant effort from both parties. I'd say love and trust should be there and so is loyalty. Touching kissing and fondling are not the only ways to make a relationship work. There are other ways to show love to your partner and I'd say more meaningful than just the physical.
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
for me it really works...only three things u need 1. Love 2. Trust 3.Communication. I believe also that touching, kissing, fondling is not the only way to make your relationship last..the more you touch, kiss, that would led you to lust and u know sx outside of marriage then maybe you'll end it up after to tried those stufs:) For me its about trust and putting God in the center of your relationship.:)Just my oppinion:)