Discussions on Mylot

I don't believe in sending PMs just for the sake of response... till now ;) Well, me too have the same problem noy getting much responses but I think one day I will get like others. I don't know why but I believe. I don't know even about the quality discussions and whats the technique to grab a big responses heap. I think friends are more important to have responses. Keep on posting good and hope for the best. Good Luck

I've noticed those with higher response do have more friends and will tend to get more responses. Also the "topic" of your discussion has alot to do with it as well. It's not so much the amount of responses I look for either, but, rather the quality of responses.

Nope, *with big confused eyes* (^^,LOL) I am still a newbie here and I don't think if I'll Pm all the person in my friends list they'll be "willing" to reply; especially for the members with higher posts than mine. As soon as they'll received my Pm, they would probably be kicking my b..tt out of their friends lists. Actually, I don't know how. I'm happy that my friends and even others not on my friends lists replied to my discussions. I'm still amazed until now. And I have always heard from other members' advices, to strive for quality over quantity. And they also said if you have nothing to post that really comes from your heart, don't start a discussion. I also think another factor is, how much do you know or get to know your friends. I may not know them all, but I make a point to get to know them better at my own pace. And sometimes you learn a lot more than you thought. So I think it is the amount of effort and heart that will speak thru your discussions that is important. And the rest a working mystery. Happy Posting Nageswari! (^^,)