What Is the Most Hurtful Or Insulting Thing Someone Has Ever Done To You?

Well my first marriage was a complete disaster - he drank too much, and was often out of work due to his drinking, and I realised I had made a huge mistake within a few months! During our short time together, he said many insuting, cruel, and hurtful things to me, which probably would have destroyed a weaker person, but I never let it get to me because I very soon despised him so much, and you can't be hurt by someone you despise, can you? In my opinion, you can only be hurt by someone whose opinion you respect, and I most certainly did not respect him. I never really think about him or our time together now - it is over 25 years ago, and I don't see the point of dredging up old wounds and old hurts - life is too short, and one must look forward and not back - at least in my opinion.

My Ex Husband has said a lot of Hurtful things in the 21 years we where married but the worse he could have ever said to me just before I decided to call it a Day and this actually helped me make up my mind is What makes you so special that anyone wants to come on to you you are nothing special His Friend was coming onto me and I told him to have a word with his Friend as I am scared of that sort of thing due to something that happened to me as a Child amnd a Teenager, this was his attitude to me. Well I always guessed I was nothing special and certainly found out that night 6 years ago that I wasn't.