What makes a woman beautiful?

@Swtrose (3385)
Canada
April 9, 2007 1:43am CST
They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, yet according to media standards you must be skinny to be attractive, desirable and sexy. In today’s society plus size women and full figure women are always classified as unattractive. Are these women not attractive too. Can a full figure lady not be desirable and sexy? What do you think makes a woman beautiful. Is it just the outer shell?
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• United States
18 May 07
Although I have my PHYSICAL preferences (like we ALL do), what's MOST sexy and beautiful about a woman is her overall VIBE! It's how she walks, how she talks, the TONE of her voice, all of that! I, personally, like short, curvy "thick" women, but what I've learned is that that indescribable "it" VIBE can be inside of ANY woman, regardless of her "outer shell"! I've been attracted 2 women who WEREN'T my "ideal", PHYSICALLY, AND, I've seen women whose body I was "in love" with, yet there was NO "spark"! So, it's her ENERGY that matters MOST! But, 2 address a body part, the EYES truly ARE the "windows 2 the SOUL", so alluring, seductive eyes ALWAYS grab MY attention! And, I like a sweet, down-2-earth, "girl next door" look in her face. It's indescribable, but I KNOW it when I c it!
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@Swtrose (3385)
• Canada
18 May 07
Well you obviously know what you want in a woman.
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@kitkat1 (1227)
• Canada
16 May 07
As far as i am concerned as this works both ways for male or female it has nothing to do with looks. True beauty comes from within. Media dictates standards of beauty that are very superficial and meaningless. The body is only a taxi for your soul and the soul is where true beauty is found.
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@Swtrose (3385)
• Canada
30 May 07
Lovely way of putting it.
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
16 May 07
Hollwood has a lot of attractive women,but as soon as they speak they become ugly! You know what i mean? They have these huge egos and some can be so superficial. A beautiful woman to me is one who acts and speaks with kindness, is gentle and thoughful and a few other related qualities. Take care Swtrose.
• India
9 Apr 07
yes its in beholders eye. but as far as the media is concerned the confidence and look is most important
@Swtrose (3385)
• Canada
15 May 07
You did not really answer my question. What makes a woman beautiful?
@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
9 Apr 07
no it's not but most people look on the outer shell rather than the inside because of maybe stereotyping to what true beauty really is...
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@dwynne (82)
• Philippines
16 May 07
Yes, society dictates that beauty is physical. That explains the tremendous hit of salons, spas and derm clinics for both men and women. But for me, I can only say someone is beautiful when we started talking and got to know each other...for real beauty lies within. We need to improve on our inner traits like Godly character, kindness, sensitivity to other's needs and sincere conviction to whatever we are doing. A good heart makes a woman beautiful!
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• India
9 Apr 07
i think that its true that beauty lies in beholder's eyes.and its totally ones good nature that reflects on our face.but yes attractive feaures do count but not to that extent.