Are lap dances cheating?
By Haasiegirl
@Haasiegirl (88)
United States
10 responses
@luka11486 (1)
• United States
19 Oct 06
depends on who the lap dance came from. if he was at a strip club and one of his paid for a lap dance or something, then no i wouldn't consider it cheating. but if he got a lap dance from some random chick, and i found out about it, then yeah, it's def cheating.
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@thisisme (263)
• United States
20 Oct 06
OMG! memories! my husband and i.. (before we got married) were friedns from high school. and we all have the same friends. Now, we all went to vegas to a strip club... and at this time we were engaged... i paid for a lap dance from a girl we all decided lookd "the best" and OH MY GOD! i can never forget that! it was more a test.. i wanted him to say no! but he didnt.. so i dont know.. i have mixed feelings... to have you man touching another woman.. and to have her all over him! i mean have you guys seen what the girls do when they give lap dances? ugh!
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@stillseeking19 (68)
• United States
20 Oct 06
im lucky ther cause the strip clubs out here dont allow men to touch the strippers. but the rest is still enough to piss a woman off
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@brettbum (304)
• United States
21 Nov 06
What about when the stripper takes you up on the stage, spanks you, sits you in a chair, rips your under wear off, climbs up the pole and then does one of those summer sault thingies down the pole and throws herself off the pole onto your lap?
Surely you can't count that as cheating can you?
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@RoseOnline (93)
• United States
20 Oct 06
Yes I believe sensual type touching is cheating. If he just looked and had no lap dance well ok then but touching is out of bounds. I would leave.
@ContentWriter (954)
• South Africa
27 Nov 06
It's an intersting question! I think a lap dance definately crosses the line though. But there's no equivalent experinece for a woman really.
I wouldn't be able to forgive my man if he had a lapdance though. Just seems wrong ?
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@teufelskind (813)
• United States
27 Nov 06
no because when i go to hard bodys i like to get one from the guys so no i dontthink it is
@stillseeking19 (68)
• United States
20 Oct 06
i really cant say it is, because in aug my husband celabrated his birthday with me (duh) and some of our friends, we decided to go to a strip club... now dont get me wrong i dont think any female in her right mind would like to see her man getting a lapdance from another woman, but as long as its not a habit, and it does go beyound a womans job, or beyound the dance than i wouldnt say its cheating
@primamomma (316)
• United States
20 Oct 06
No, I mean normal in the strip club lap dances are not a big deal, unless there is some fancy extra special kind I am not aware of. LOL
