What can I do?

China
April 10, 2007 1:31am CST
I've been living with my boyfriend for more than 2 years, now, he will go to another city to work soon, what should I do? During the past 2 years, he was a student in university, and I keeping working in a company, so we lived in low water. But I konw I loved him, and he also loved me, so we were happy. Now, he will graduate soon, he found a fine job in another city, and he will leave about several days later. Four to five months ago, when he just started to looking for job, he tole me that wherever he went, I just need to follow him, because my earning here is not very satisfying, I can find a better job in his city. But now, he doesn't like me to go with him, he told me he didn't want to marry with anybody, he didn't want to waste my time, maybe he would come back if both us are not married five years later. I still love him, and I know that he still love me, too. I belive any word he said, everybody here, can you tell me what should I do? Find a job in his city, or stay here waiting for him?
1 response
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
that's a hard situation that you're in right now... your boyfriend is just starting his career so maybe your relationship is not one of his priorities right now. and if ever you transfer to where he's going to, there's no assurance that he's going to stay with you. so weigh things out, if it's worth it to go with him and look for another job, or let him go, and just wish him the best....
• China
10 Apr 07
Thank you for your response, I'm afraid that he will unhappy if I follow him to the city he's going to, so I ought to stay here, just wish him the best...