Virginity.... problem or not?

@suryono (125)
Indonesia
April 10, 2007 10:09pm CST
Hello guys, in here I will ask to everybody, How about virginity at your country? it is important or not? at my country Indonesia virginity is very important by someone who will married.
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8 responses
@mattchua (229)
• Changi, Singapore
11 Apr 07
Not much of a problem here in Singapore as it is a very open and liberal country here.
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• Indonesia
11 Apr 07
In my country is important all, the girls must be keep virginity until here married, thank you for sharing it
• Canada
11 Apr 07
What about the guys. Why is it only women that NEED to keep thier virginity If its that important than it should be that way for both sexes.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
29 Apr 07
A virgin is an undefiled female who has not been penetrated-she is intact, the virginal hymen is sealed and is in waiting for Mr. Right! In my culture it is something that is desired but it is not so important as it used to be.The sad bit is that girls in my country nolonger keep themselves intact, at 9years the little things are sexually very active and can contain any male! So prospective suiters have slowly slacken the rules of engagement regarding virginity-it is nolonger a precondition for marriage as it used to be! In the past, on the wedding night, the Aunt of the groom would personally dress the bed with brand new white bedsheets and in the following morning, she would come early to demand for the bedsheets for inspection. If there were blood stains on the bedsheets, then the bride would be give a big cow as reward for keeping intact! When the bed sheets started failing the stain test,the Aunties came to the conclusin that keeping intact is getting very difficult with modernization! Well it is good to be virgin if you can make it today, but we all know it is not so easy for young people!
@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Since the USA is so diverse you will find many different views. Some will say that it is not important, others will say they don't can, while others say that it is a requirement for marriage. It depends on the person, his/her religion and believes, and other factors as well. Have a nice day. Pablo
@anggapc (141)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 07
Yes, virginity is important to me. because i hope i have a virgin wife when i married.
• Indonesia
29 Apr 07
Did you have you marry..? i think it is very-very important to keep the virginity it self not only for the girls but also the guys, 'cause most of the guys talking about the virginity of the girls and what about their self (i mean the guys), are they also keep his virginity, so i think if we a good boy i'm sure that we will also get a good girl. No doubt about it
@kakuemmom (859)
• Canada
11 Apr 07
virgin till married it's a nice thought but very rare here or i think just about everywhere. If you manage to stay a virgin until marriage i say good for you.
@maxxine (610)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
here in the philippines, is not an issue anymore......