it's a girl thing!
By desireeo
@desireeo (595)
Philippines
April 11, 2007 3:24am CST
have you noticed how women can't seem to get along when put together in one room? give them 10 minutes and they're on each other's throats. i am a woman and this bothers me sometimes. i have to admit i'm guilty of this but i just wish we could change the pattern.
i notice how we put somebody down so we can feel good about ourselves. we see other women as competition. checking out her clothes, her boobs (are they fake or not?), her behind, her everything to see if she's better than any of us. we love to gossip. we know who's sneaking around and stuff without checking out our acts first. if we see a girl that is so flawless in everything, we pray that there's going to be a rip in her dress.
well, i call this a bout of insecurity. it's in everybody but it's prevalent in women. most of us put so much emphasis on outer beauty. what can i say? looks can really put your feet in the door. i am discussing this cuz i have a daughter and i wish for her to have a strong personality and acceptance of what she has and what she can't have.
if we can only muster self confidence without having to be arrogant then i think we can be happy with ourselves and for all the girls that are doing better than us.
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@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
i know it may sound odd but I was just wondering..I didn't know that there'll always be competition because for me if i'm in a room or what of girls, I don't get insecure and nor do I compare..I just let myself be. I'm not into comparing myself to others. I accept that there's really someone higher than me in other aspects because you can't really say you're the highest and there's someone lower than you and even if they're lower than you, it's better to take control of your feelings and be downright humble
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