GIRL FRIEND or WIFE?????choose one.......

India
April 11, 2007 4:11am CST
friends hve u ever been in such a critical situation in ur life when u hve to choose among one of them....one of my friend is in such situation n need ur help.....so plzz help him with ur advice n why?? i m waiting 4 ur posts.. thank you..
2 responses
@capssy07 (207)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
The situation lies on three parties. The guy should answer the following questions for him to decide. Whom he love deeply the girlfriend or wife? This means what is the role of grlfriend and why she got an intervention while the guy is married? What are the qualites of his wife that he cannot really stand or did he try to adjust on those qualities? If he loves his girlfriend more,did he think that she can sacrifice and do what his wife has done in past few years for their relationship to survive. In case the girlfriend is not willing to give up the guy, is she willing to be on the shoe of the wife when another girlfriend comes along the way. On the side of the wife, did he loved her someone and willing to fight for it. Can she forgive her husband and will work out on the situation? If, this question does not make him decide try try to go back on the date he became married. Think of the vows and your willingness to get married. Why he want to get married that time? Is he happy? Go deeply on the reasons concerning himself, his wife, his girlfriend, his children. Think the situation analytically where everyone if possibly can be happy or if not, try to think of the decision you can say I am right and happy with my decision. I don't have any regret even if you've been in your decision for decades of years. Try to think carefully who should stay and who should be given up. Goodluck
• India
11 Apr 07
thank u dude..i think u hve given a nice solution for such a critical problem...but still there is a dilemma...but i think it will be solved after getting more suggestion....
@arkentos (213)
• India
11 Apr 07
my friend u have asked something very crucial..and anyone would get in that condition..if it would have been me then..I would go for wife..because you have got married and have to bear the responsiblity..but why not get both..if ur girlfriend has no problem about it...