3rd parties: how to deal with them?
By sweetjessa
@sweetjessa (234)
Philippines
April 11, 2007 7:16am CST
its rampant nowadays that most relationships has 3rd parties... in a case where you're a part of a family that suddenly wrecked coz of these people, what will you do? how are you going to deal with them? if ever, your father has a mistress or your boyfriend/girlfriend has another what will you do?
1 response
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
In my case... my husband had an another woman for almost two and a half year now... Wellat first....it was like a bomb that explode and kill all my dreams... but then i think about it and decided to settle things for my kids... so I talked to the girl and my husband... Ive been a foolish friend who listen to their sentiments... and been fooled to believe that they are already through only to find out in the end that they are living in the same house...
Well then I decided to let go...and start anew life without him...hoping that God will provde me happiness in the end. And He did! He gave me man who is greatr than what i think...Now i believe that things happen for a reason whether good or bad..
We justt need to learn when to hold on and when to let go... Hold on when there is something worth fighting for... And a man with another woman??? How would you like to stay with someone who cant be true? let go when youre the only person who wanted to stay... Love is a two way street afterall...
@sweetjessa (234)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
Wow! thanks a lot for that wonderful comment lucky_witch! well in my case really, my mother talked to the girl already and my father telling us that they're already through with that relationship. and then we found out later that the girl is pregnant and then now, they had their baby already. my mother keeps on crying really. and i dont know what to do for her. my father and that girl is such a pain in the head! we want him out of our life but he wont go. he insisted to stay in that. really, as of now. we dont know what to do.
