feel like i was used

United States
April 11, 2007 5:50pm CST
my guy friend just moved away to oceanside from where i live around and he is acting really strange.I have done so much for him ,lent him money,tooken him to job interviews,took him out to lunches,bought him things and treated him real good,well the other day my clutch went out.So the first thing he says when he called was is your car fixed yet.The time before the night my car brokedown i went all the way to oceanside to drive him to interviews and on the way home i got stuck at a truck stop and had to call triple a.I feel like the only thing i was ever good for was that i had a car cause i called him the other day and he was like whats up and i was like nothing and he goes oh,and then says look i'm busy right now i can't talk and he never says that.He hasn't called in three days and didn't even call to say happy easter ,he is basically ignoring me now that my car isn't running,i thought he was a friend but i feel used,does it sound like he is going through issues of his own or does it sound like he doesn't care and basically he was using me the whole time?
2 responses
@dio123 (1788)
• India
25 Jun 07
Do not tolerate such mean friends infact they are not friend Avoid him totally
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
11 Apr 07
it sounds to me like he was using you. my friend had a guy like that. he was always calling her for rides or money and stuff like that and he kept her stringing along by flirting with her. he knew she had a thing for him even though she never admitted it to him. he took total advantage of it. now i'm not saying you have a thing for this guy but hes doing the same thing to you. he is using you and not being a true friend.