Is it possible that a man would love two women at the same time?

I know 7 years is a long time, and old habits die hard, but this guy is having you on dear - drop him like a hot brick, pronto! It probably won't be easy for you after all this time you've been with him, but better to suffer now for a while, than for the rest of your life if you fall in with this guy's plan. For your own sake - get rid of him. Oh yeah, he tells you the relationship will continue after he is married - sure it will, he'll be in clover won't he - a new wife and a ready-made mistress right from the start........ Don't let him use you like that, make a clean break as soon as you can. If you agree to this guy's selfish "arrangement" you'll put women's equality and dignity back 60 years. Don't stand for it - give him the Big Elbow, ASAP. Good Luck!

hey gurl wake up... its about time you love yourself back. you answer your question. you kno the answer well... why are you being dumb... if he cant marry... then why waste your time? you know how guys are... they always make promises they don't intend to keep... especially if they know thay have dumb gurls like you... its ouchy... but that would make you wake up... cmon gurl... wake up.

you can never love 2 persons at the same time with the same quantity. there will always be someone who will have more amount of attention and someone will also get more time. if your boyfriend really loves you and with that span of time that you are together, i think he should have chosen you. he cannot justify his reasons of choosing another woman, unless his reason for her is something else which is not love. just an advice, you should think about this relationship. would you want to be the 2nd best for him? would like to continue to live a life where you will never be completely happy?