WhEn Do YoU say "IT'S OVER"

I am thinking about that a lot too. I don't think relationship has to always be over on bad note. I think if people liked eachother there always should be little love left to respect other person later on. I can tell you about my expierience - there was little fight between my bf and me about business thing. He sudenly said:" If you act like that I don't think we should continue our relationship." I took it in. I was sad, but I accepted it, because there is no reason to fight - it makes things worse. I know he din't think when he said it, but ... I let it happen.... later on he called me and said that we shouldn't end it like this, but if I still want to be apart ... it was great time to end, because we still like eachother very much. I think there is no plan for starting and ending relationship. I act the way I feel at that moment ....

i will say its over if he doing the same mistakes...well, were only human,right? everybody commit mistakes and if GOD forgive us for our sin why not us?They say that in love you have to forgive..forgive and forgive!!!but there is always an end to this...u might as well feel that your about to give up and soon you will learn again to forgive...thats the thing!

I've been through a lot of break-ups already. It's really hard to let go someone you truly love. I hate to do it. Yet sometimes, it becomes a must. And it becomes very frustrating for the two of you to stay together. If you stay together, nothing will happen. Also, noone will grow. Noone will turn out happy in the end. I say "It's over" when I feel so hurt. I have a long patience I should say. However, when my partner has done avery wrong act like having another guy, that's already foul. That's the time I ask for space and direction. I stop. I quit. I don't have to be stupid forever.

hi kathrynmay! for me, relationships are "COMMITMENTS" so i rarely give up on love. For me love till it hurts. With my past relationship that was 7 years. I just ended it cause my ex-boyfriend is no longer willing to cooperate, he cheated on me and he's not willing to work things out, on the first few years i always work things out with him. My point is the couple should never give up as much as possible if they really love each other, the relationship should only ends when the other party is not responding on the situation. It takes two to tango and love is a two way road. Just give up when things cannot be compromise and each partner is no longer willing to solve the issues that arises in a relationship.

maybe when the time comes that i can really feel that our relationship is not going anywhere, i mean if we dont trust each other anymore, we fight often and if one of us wants to find or meet other people then i'd probably give up our relationship than holding on and making it hard for the both of us.. i dont want our relationship to end with no more respect for each other so i'd better stop it and keep the respect that is left for us..

a relationshipends only when either one of the erson is feeling bored in the company of the othere.the main thing in any relationshp is the amount of timeyou are spending with each other.if any one is making excuses to give time to the other then ,i think we should better call this relationship off.

Hi kathrynmay! just wanna share you this- I was in a relationship for 5 long years, I thought I was happy, I though we were good, I thought we're gonna end up together but we did say our goodbyes finally 3 years ago. For that 5 years, I endured a lot of pain, accepting all the cheating he's doing from time to time,some of the girls have become friends of mine..would you belive that? my own friends got pissed and mad at me for acting like a fool and being stupid for him and yet I don't wanna give up, I just cannot give up the years we spent together although I know that my hear is slowly breaking into pieces. But at some point in my life came the realization that it has to be over, his hurting me has to be over, his making a fool of me should be over,but I tell you it's not easy as 1 2 3, I was at the lowest point of my life.But i got up,God has pulled me off the dirt and made me stand and love my self. I realized that I just have to trust God even in my relationship. So I said goodbye and walked on.IT'S FINALLY OVER. I'm now married and I can't thank God enough for blessing me with the most wonderful husband in the world.

which one? all of them? all future ones? would need more info

I say It's over when your in relationship and then your bf cheating on you....U feel so bad...for me when I say finished is already finished.....

Well i said it was over because i felt they will never be my husband.I could feel it.He's not the one for me. That made me not wanna go further i wasn't really in love with them.It was more like a crush but as soon as i was involved in a relationship i felt sick and it didn't felt good to me.So i ended the relationship. I just said it to the guy and they understood.If i didn't ended it i would fool the guy but also myself.

When the feeling is gone, it's definitely over. I mean, you stayed in the relationship because you love each other, without that love, what's the sense of continuing it? I've had my share of heartbreaks and mind you, there are times that the guy did the breaking-up. It might as well be that because at least I spared myself from "hurting" the guy. I mean, I wouldn't mind a guy breaking up with me when we both know that we've lost the magic....

A relationship should be over if you cannot fixed anymore the mess that you have done within your relationship. If both of you always hurt each other more and more each day you meet. Eventhough you are trying to fixed all the problems that comes within your relationship but later on nothing happens maybe you should better give up. Its the best way for both of you so that you will not get hurt anymore.

when she say "i don't love you anymore..."

I believe in trying to make things work, in seeing how far Love alone can take you, and over how many obstacles it can carry you. But things can go bad, and people can become trapped. Its time to end it if other people get hurt because a relationship. Being in a relationship shouldn't hurt anyone but the people in it, and its almost impossible for that hurt to get too great, becuase it will always be balanced with love. Alternately, if I'm in a relationship and I realize that their is a serious difference in emotion, i.e. they are falling madly in love and I am thinking less and less of them, I will be completely open and honest, and end it.

Well in my own experience... Ive been married for almost 6 yrs now...and my husband is having an affair with another woman... for two years and a half now... I've learned about their relationship 3 months when they were still 2 months... Would you believe that ive let go only last year? I did everyhing I can to save our marriage... but ive been fooled a hundred times... Then one day i woke up... feeling that i cant trust my life and my kids life to him anymore... I guess thats my turning point... I talked to him and end it... then go on with my own life.

When you know you have no more feelings for that person, it is no longer possible to continue. To continue would be doing not only yourself an injustice, but to that person as well. Somehow when you just can't take it anymore, you know it's game over.

Its actually not over, until its over. Its over to me when I stop seeing and phoning him. Most times you will cut the relationship but still be friends, being friends brings back past memories to me, and I dont seem to like it, however, It really done on me that it over, when l cut off all contacts with him.

i would never say its over i will try to figure out something.You can never say its over to people whom you love

I would say when I would know that the other person is not caring about me any more.I am very sensitive on these issues and if something he does which causes me pain I always complains.If he doesn't care about my likings and my dislikings then also I would break up.Love or any relationship is something you respects each other feelings.