can relaltionship really grow when you meet that person on the internet?
By daryljane
@daryljane (3406)
Philippines
April 12, 2007 6:10am CST
i think its really amazing how love can grow even if you havent met each other yet..we see it everyday, esp in the philippines, people meet on the internet and theire relationship can grow from that kind of foundation..
i dont use to agree with it before but now that my cousin just left for nevada and got married last week to the guy he met over the interent, well i guess it can really work..
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7 responses
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I think it can work and grow, but you have to be careful that who your talking to is really who they say they are. I think that if you go through a good site that does backround checks you can find the person of your dreams but just like everything else, you have to pull alot of weeds to see the flowers. Take care!
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
yeah, i guess when finding the person who you want to be with, it comes with a risk... aleap of faith also....we just need to be very cautios!
@18101989 (700)
• India
12 Apr 07
yes it is possible that a relation unnamed and unseen relation can grow on net it is only possible when you find a person that has same interest as you have you get more attracted towards himself and if not that you find a person who's language influence you and you just start liking him well it can happen any where
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
12 Apr 07
I think they can work like any relationaship, in fact I know a couple who did meet over the internet and they are doing fine, when you think about it noe relationship these days is easy...
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
yeah..like my cousin,,they also met on the net and theyre very happy right now...
@denish2008 (99)
• India
12 Apr 07
I don't think we can trust some one that much through the internet even though there are cases like you said. Cause there are people who like to fool others. I'm one such victim fooled by a guy, i really thought it was a girl.
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
OMG! REALLY!!! i feel for you..thats must be very terrible..guess you need to be careful next time..
@Cathzsmile (171)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
Well, I think it depends to the both parties concerned. Like what happened to me I've met my fiance not thru the internet but through telephone calls. We became phone pals for almost six months before we personally met. We became boyfriend and girlfriend on the second time we met and until now I should say that we are already nearly six years in relationship. As long as both parties were honest, loyal, and trust worthy everything is possible.
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
wow! congratulations!!! its nice to hear that its still working great up until now...your very lucky!
@punchery (67)
• China
12 Apr 07
I think it can be.Internet is a space for us to communicate with other,through this we get to make a lot of friends,or even fall in love with someone,just like the reality world.In fact,I have a good friend who married a man she met on the internet.They're now leading a happy life^^
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
thanks for that...i guess sometime we need to stir our luck in finding the right person..
@4cuteboys (4099)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Sure it does work for some. It just seems so risky to me, because people can lie, or not be who they said, or could be violent ect. I know even people you know for real can be like that too, but it seems like it would be EASIER to lie over the computer. It's nice to hear a success story though!
