How do you treat your girlfriend?

@th_sia (164)
Malaysia
April 12, 2007 1:53pm CST
Do you treat them like pricess? Do you sing a song to put her to sleep? Do you pay for her bills?
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12 responses
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I treat my girlfriend as heaven on d earth. I never disrespect her and I argue with her once in a while only to prove my point. I love her so own, plus my skateboard. I never sing her a song to sleep 'cause I think she'll find that too corny, plus I can't even sing one of those real love songs. I sing only punk songs and there ain't nothing in there 'bout how I truly feel 'bout her. I'd pay for her bills anytime, which is kind of a nuisance if she gets dependent on me 'cause I usually don't last more than a year in a job and not even three months residing in one place. My partner is my equal and she knows that so she does what she likes and I do what I can to be next to her.
@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
20 May 07
That's very cool! I guess you have found the right one!
• India
22 Apr 07
I do treat her like a princess but thats not all it takes to be a good bf.you need to be alongside supporting when she needs you most and doing even the smallest things for each other really counts than treating like a prince or princess
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@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
20 May 07
Yes, that's right! Thank you for your comment!
@zen_flynx (106)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
I have basically done everything that you had mentioned and more... my girl deserves only the best from me. its not exactly a princess thing (but i do treat her like that) because she also does things that make a tear roll down my cheeks because of the overwhelming Joy she has given me. she is the sanity in my chaotic world...
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@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
20 May 07
Thanks for your post, very inspiring! :)
• China
13 Apr 07
To treat my GF like princess is very difficult for me. Since she has always requested a lot of unbelievebale problems for me .And I did sing a song to put her to slppe but it was 2years ago.To pay for her bills is OK acceptable.
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@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
20 May 07
But i am sure you gets along well since you have been together for 2 years or more.
• India
13 Apr 07
well, i dont think a nice guy will speak about what all he do to his gf. well i'm not gf to anyone but i have my fiance. ofcourse he treats me like his princess, he pays my bills, he doesnt sing, but sometimes he'll tell me stories to make me sleep... but i want to tell ya that just not paying her bills and singing songs for her or treating her like princess will make a women crazy about her guy... it takes more than that.... all the above things will make a materialistic woman satisfy, ya i accept all women will like diamonds and chocolates (no offense) but still guys should give them the real respect and all that she deserves... in terms of love, affection, care, hugs, kisses... esp, he should be very sincere to his girl....
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@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
20 May 07
Thanks for your very thoughtful post.
• Philippines
13 May 07
I treat my girlfriend like a princess but not necessarily paying her bills.I just show her my love but not on material things. Everyday when i wake, first thing i do is to leave a message on her phone, and saying Good morning... I love you and take care. That's everyday. I Just show her that i will do everything that I can just to make her happy. Even the simple things count.
@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
20 May 07
That's very sweet! :)
@gavinmin (14)
• China
1 May 07
I don't think a man should treat his girlfriend like pricess,everyone is equal.In China the boyfriend paying for his girlfriend is very normal,which is a chinese tradition.
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@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
20 May 07
treating her as princess doesn't mean it will bring down your status. it just like being extra careful, tender, or soft to her.. Ya, i am a chinese guy too, too bad, always have to be the one who pay for her meal.. But other than that, her phone bills, her rental, her car loan, do you also pay for that?
• Malaysia
7 Aug 07
I think it is innecessary to treat her lika a princess. In a relationship, both are giving and taking as the same time, if guy is the one who is always giving, it's unhealthy. Try to delegate responsibility according to what someone is strong at and always trying to strength the relationship by learning together.
• Australia
20 May 07
Hello th_sia As a girl i will tell you how my bf treat me. He is a nice person, give everything i want ( but I never ask him anything). He try to be romantic even he is not a romantic man. He changes his life because he want me to be more love him and don't want make me disappointed. I think that's the very important thing. God bless you *angel www.beautycosmetictips.com
@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
20 May 07
Thank you for your response! Glad that your bf treat you really nice and lovely.
@sdj3rd (65)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
i treat my girlfriend as my baby, baby sister, my princess. i cook for her, i protect her, i dont let her work, and my service is always ready every time she needs me.
@m0l3m1n (13)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
I treat my gf as someone who will be next to me till the end of time.. I always make her feel special in any way i can.. She is my princess, my baby, my angel, my wife to be.. She is svrything to me.. Others would say,I'm treating her like a goddess.. Well, it's there opinion and i have nothing to do with tha.. I treat her in a way that she has to be treated... With so much love, care and all.. i always make sure that a day or even an hour or minute would pass without saying how much i love her and how much she means to me.. I pay her bills also.. :) Every free time that i have, i make sure i spend it with her... Just for her and nothing more.. I'm giving her all the attention that she needed, all the support that she would get from me... All ancouragements are there for her to be more inspired in whatever that she does.. If ver we have misunderstandings, i always step down my pride and talk to her.. admit some faults even if sometimes it's her fault.. For me, being understanding and patient are one of the most imporatnt factors in a relationship coz as we all know, girls are so sensitive so if there would be fights, control your temper and talk in a nice way til she cools down.. My herats would always be with her, she is my life and nothing can ever take it away from me.. As long as she is happy, I'll be happy for her...
@zathan (2)
21 Jul 07
all i can say is as her boyfriend, i take good care of her. i mean, i try to do things for her. i don't let her go home alone, i accompany her always. i am sweet to her and i always find ways to be sweet. i visit her at their house everyday just to see her. i tell her i love u everyday.