What would you do if you found out your friend was transvesdike

United States
April 12, 2007 5:48pm CST
I was working with a very pretty girl at a part time job some time ago... and I notice there was something kind of odd... but not trying to discriminate i became a really good friend of hers... days and weeks and months went by and I started to notice changes in her voice...and the way she walked... also she would always say she needed breast implants... she smoked like a man and sometimes the man in her would pop out. Her boyfriend was 50 years old and she was only 23... I accidently came upon some pictures of her in a suite...still to this day i don't know if she is a women or a man because she is soooo damn pretty..but the fact that she is hiding her true identity is making me mad every day what should I do tell her I think she is a man or wait until our friendship fails because she is un-truthful
1 response
@Chryssi (828)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Maybe you could kind of hint around to her that you're curious about it. If one of my friends turned out to be a transvestite, I would be upset. The trust would be gone, but I would try to understand that the person was afraid to tell anyone. I wouldn't cut the friendship off completely, but if we'd formed a bond, it'd definitely be broken.
• United States
12 Apr 07
Thank you...its a trust factor not discrimination... I would be more hurt because she didn't tell me the truth its like fraud... I would feel like everything was a lie... and I know its hard to come out, but she should of thought about that when she decided to change her gender