is it alright for guys to cry?

Philippines
April 14, 2007 3:39am CST
What do you girls and dudes think about a dude crying? Weakness, Compassionate, or just plain he gay as hell?
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7 responses
• Malaysia
14 Apr 07
What?? Guys cry?? Oh no.. Please guys. Dont do like this. Guys is not smart if cry expecially in front the girl. So, don't be weak. Become a strong guys.
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• Philippines
14 Apr 07
nice reply man. but we all have different opinions on this matter.
• United States
14 Apr 07
I don't think there is anything wrong with men crying. I think it is a natural emotion and there should be less pressure on men to be tough and supress tears. Cry if you want to cry. But there is a line...no one likes a cry baby. :)
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• Philippines
14 Apr 07
thanks for your reply.
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@web2samus (255)
• Uruguay
14 Apr 07
I can't see what's SO f*ckin' wrong about someone crying I mean, if you're really sad it's just natural that you may cry, in fact forcing ourselves to not is what is wrong to me. it is true that women usually are far more emotional than men but that does not mean that we don't feel and even more, that society's pressure as to be cold and hard is in my opinion one of the things that makes human relationships so hard today. geez!:P
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
youre the man bro you have a really good point there
@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
14 Apr 07
I mean if girls can cry then guys can do the same afterall we are merely humans and we need human affection to keep us strong. But if a guys cries often over petty things then that would be a problem.
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
dont it look gay to cry specially infront of women??
@ergg78 (344)
• Malaysia
14 Apr 07
Boys have more egos than girls, that's why often we could see guys with red eyes but not bursting into tears! There's nothing wrong when a guy is crying. Crying is one way to release our tenses, holding them will just make it even worst for them inside.
@meteor (22)
• Chengdu, China
14 Apr 07
it is unnecessary to cry whenever one wants to cry,but one would be able to cry when one ought to cry--when one needs to cry.for to cry under certain emotionallly disequilibrating conditions is necessary for the maintenance of health
@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
14 Apr 07
I don't think that guys crying is anything bad. Infact, crying is a good thing because in this way a person releases all the pressures and emotions inside which could harm a person badly. So if any guy would cry infront of me, I won't think bad or less of him but I would admire him for making me feel special that he trusted me and opened with me.