What are the best things to talk when U hv chance to speak girl of ur dreams ?

@samrat16 (2442)
India
April 14, 2007 4:23am CST
This are the things which I think of if thinking of "The best things to talk about when I will finally have a chance to talk to the girl of my dreams" Just be myself and talk about things I like doing and being...but will remmember to listen to her too, and show interest on getting to know her. Talk about personal things if I trust her... Talk about my childhood, my family, my pets, funny things about me...ask her things about her too. I will love listening about it! and find out what she is interested on...maybe art...and if I know a little bit of art, I can talk about it, but if I don't know anything, then try and ask her more questions about why she loves it so much and maybe there I will find an opportunity to ask her for a date to go to the museum, or whatever she likes. :) Don't you think this is okay.
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@yanjiaren (9050)
14 Apr 07
Very important thing you mentioned is about listening to what she has to say and not many men are good at that so I know you are both sensitive and selfless. These are great qualities to possess but there has to be a balance too because I have seen good guys get ripped off by nasty characters..So it can work both ways. Hopefully you will find someone that shares similar interests to you and is not just a pretty face, because looks fade, having someone that can be a close and good friend as well as an attractive partner is paramount to a lasting relationship. If my relationship with my hubby was just based on physical we would have both dumped each other with the long distances we have to endure in between.
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
14 Apr 07
For the girl of ur dreams.....not to come off to strong at her invite her to coffee or dinner and this way u get to show her just how nice of a guy u are and u can then let her open up to u and it will all happen naturally from there....trust me on this, ok......SAMRAT16
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@aissha (2036)
• India
14 Apr 07
get u back later ,hubby cribing,bye.
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@samrat16 (2442)
• India
14 Apr 07
Sure I will bw waiting for your response.
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@aissha (2036)
• India
15 Apr 07
finally back, okk then hmm i see u are good ,if a man is funny ,hv lil money doesn't smell bad,lool lil good ,finding u and ur things(okk talking just about talks ,dont go beyond that)interesting .. enough ya ,i think most of the girls will like someone like that. now i know u must have girlfriendS and many of them.filhaal jo permanent hai take care of her and enjoy ur break.u coming tomorrow right?
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@KarenO52 (2951)
• United States
14 Apr 07
Ask about her interests and let her talk about herself first. I wouldn't say too much about yourself at first, just be yourself, show your interest in her, and she'll come to be interested in you too. If she doen't seem intersted, then forget her, she's a waste of time.
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@samrat16 (2442)
• India
14 Apr 07
First off. Do not have small talk. If she is going to talk to you have something better to say then " It looks like today is going to be beautiful day" unless it leads to you telling her that you enjoy writing about it or that you play a certain sport. If you go to the same school talk about something that happened that week that she will know about. But most of all be open and don't discriminate her opinions even if they are totally different from yours. :)
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@laltu86 (1253)
• India
16 Apr 07
You can prepare a lot of words to liue her but when she is just before you you start faltering your words, all your speach powes goes wild, you say what you didnt thought of even. Its from my personal experience, so you can belive it.
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• India
15 Apr 07
for me it just any thing. just any topic will do as long as she talks to me. i will be pleased to have just talked to her. though i will probably not like to make her bored. i think any recent hot topic would do. but wait this is not all i will make sure that this topic is changed to me and her. i will make sure that she enjoys the time with me as it is the most important think for me and her.
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@deepti15 (1190)
• India
15 Apr 07
Well, I dont know, I am confused, or I think i am running out of words. Actually I am already having cold feet, imagining talking to my dream man. Very tough, but eh, i think I would love to listen him more, because later I dont think I will give him a chance, lolz.. Well, I would tell him, about my dreams, what I expect of life, my dreams, my fanatasies and how I would achieve them. Listen to his part of life, what are his priorities, his dreams and his expectations from life. I think our tastes of people, our taste in everything else in life is also something I would like to talk to.
@kathy77 (7487)
• Australia
14 Apr 07
Yes, it is very important to be yourself as a woman nobody likes a fake that will put any woman off you right away. I believe that you have the right attitude here and should easily be able to get a girl of your dreams I am quite sure about that after what you have said here. Of course I think that you are right in every word that you have said here.
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@bluewings (3857)
14 Apr 07
If she is the girl of my dreams I'd speechlessly keep looking at her and listen to what she has to say.I hope I am not so lost that I don't understand anything,lol.Just kidding.Well,I'd talk to her like I would to a friend.I'd love to know about her.If she is not much of a talker then I will babble something to let her know I can talk :-P
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• Pakistan
17 Apr 07
When I get chance to talk a girl first I use to start praising her beauty. Beauty of her face, body, thaughs,talk. There are many angles and corner of beauty of a lady. A lady or girl thinks that she should look very attractive and beautiful. For this purpose she use to go to beauty parler or stay hanging with he dressing table. She psychlogically needs from other to talk about her beauty. who am I looking. This question hidden in her heart and brain. She gets it's answer when you start to talk this " what a beautifultt girl are, you are looking prety." Girls like gift. If you seeking a girl friend then you should arrange beautiful gift first. And thier is no better gift than prais of her beauty.
@adidas7878 (2013)
• United States
17 Apr 07
this a tough one because if i have a chance to speak to the girl of my dreams i would be too nervous, oh wait never mind, i dated the girl of my dream and it was the best 6 months of my life too bad things didnt work out :(
@whyaskq (7529)
• Singapore
17 Apr 07
In my opinion, the best things to talk about is the degree of sincerity and friendliness. She will need to feel secured and enjoy your company. It would not be too good to go into too personal stuffs if this is the first meet up. Just relax and go along with the flow. React accordingly. Following a plan might be too stressful and rigid and might backfire if one wrong move is taken ;P
@subathra (3519)
• India
14 Apr 07
This is very much okay when its your first conversation with your dream girl.Hope you can improve your talks in latter sessions.