plz help me

my advice is that you make some "parinig" like for example, you're talking to yourself and you know that he can hear you, express how sorry you are to him. talk to yourself as if you're talking to him, make sure that he can hear you...

You know what? I'm happy that you have a plan to reconcile with your brother. Just like other people who responds with your thread reconcilation is hard to do most especially when we hurt someone's feeling. I should advice you to let his anger subside first, maybe the wounds were still fresh but after a few days or just a couple of weeks try to talk to him and tell him how sorry you are in what you have said. I hope that you and your brother will patch up soon...

hi! i think reconciling with our love one either brother, sister , bf , gf is really difficult..once we hurted their feelings. Maybe just tell your side, and apologize..if he is not listening try to let it pass...maybe you could give him a treat..you may buy small gift for him and put special notes of an apology. or know what you think is his favorite and give it to him. If still did not work, you may just wait for the right time, he forgive you...good luck!

well for me, you can write a letter for him, it is more sweetier and probably he'll read it.. just place the letter in his bed and for sure he get curious and read the letter.. just try this one.. :)

I had almost the same experience several weeks ago.I was very angry at that time but I am very regretful now.I think the very important thing is you must forget the things and choose a chance to explain what you really meant that time.

I believe we have different reactions to such circumstances. At times we need to just wait. Other times we need to settle disputes right at the moment it happened. Try to see which best works for you and your bro. If he is older I believe its best to make the hurt heal with time, but if he is younger it may be good to talk to him or give him a note of apology. Smile.....a friendly advice only

Just give him time. I'm sure he'll come around. Turn the situation around and think of how you would feel if he said what you did to you. Would you need time to forgive him? Try not to let it get to you too much, give him some space and then try to apologize again. Good luck!

My sister is 7 years younger than I am. When I was 23 and she was 16 I was going through a pretty tough time, and my parents were keeping my daughter while I was in rehab trying to get my life straight. My sister had had an abortion, and we were fighting about my daughter. I was so angry I blurted out "If you were so worried about it why didn't you have your own kid?!" It was hurtful, and I regretted it right after the words came out of my mouth. It took some time for her to calm down, and I gave it a couple days and apologized to her. I told her I didn't mean to be hurtful, but I had felt like she was judging me when I was trying to do what was best for myself and my child. She also apologized and we got over it. Good luck to you with your brother. It stinks when you fight with your sibs.

First give him time. If you have already said you are sorry then he has heard you. Some things cut rather deeply and are not easily forgotten. After some time call him back and say once again that you are so very sorry and hope that he is talking to you gain. Maybe send him an I'm sorry card either through mail or email. If you use email you can daily send a card which might get him to laughing which may lessen the hurt. Time is the only true healer though but I am sure in time your brother will know you are sorry.

First of all do not get panicked,he's your bro,you dear brother.Do all the things that he likes,butter him up alot.Apologize from the bottom of your heart.Give him avalid reason for your wrong behaviour;may be he is just kidding.Go ahead!Get him to love you,afterall he will also have the same feelings for you.

First give him some time.If you've already said sorry then don't worry he'll understand soon.Just show him how much you care for him and all the best.