To all singles out there, do you miss being a part of a couple?
By steney
@steney (1418)
Philippines
April 14, 2007 11:56am CST
Most of us have experienced loving someone and being loved in return. It's a 'couple' thing when two people mutually feel the same way for each other and decide to commit to each other by having a relationship. I'm still single and the last relationship I had was with my daughter's father almost 6 years ago. I didn't have any other relationship after that, either serious or just for fun. I've lost interest in actively seeking for a new partner to get to know to, to spend time with and consider building my future with. I've concentrated mainly on being a mother to my daughter. However, I miss those times when I was part of a 'couple'. I miss the high that I get whenever I am in love. It can be the greatest and most unexplainable feeling you can ever get. I miss sharing a lot of things with a someone special. How about you? Do you miss being in a relationship? What do you miss the most now that you're still single? Please do share what you think. :)
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@azilanohj (286)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
Well, to be honest I haven't got a boyfriend since birth. I'm already 25 and I haven't experience being a part of a couple. I think you won't believe me, It's up to you. It's my choice back then because I'm still in college that time and busy with my studies but now I graduated, I just thought about that and wanting to have someone who I will love and love me in return. I have tutors but I don't like them. I think it will come for me when it is the right time. So, don't lose hope. They are out there somewhere.
@azilanohj (286)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Thanks. But sometimes I feel I envy them, specially when I see them happy and sweet. I hope that I will not be an oldmaid someday. Cross my fingers. LOL
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
I don't actually miss being part of a couple...yet. I guess it's because I am so busy with my work and in raising my children. There are times that I wish that there is someone whom I could share my responsibilities with but that is just the extent of my 'wanting' and nothing more. I have been separated for over a year only and I feel that it is too soon for another relationship and my experience left very little to be desired that I just don't want another repeat and all those stress that comes with it.
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@steney (1418)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
I know the feeling. I'm also busy with work and my daughter that I don't find time to actually search for someone. It's been five years but I feel too tired to get to know someone all over again and go through all the emotional roller coaster I've been through. But when I see couples, I can't help but wonder when will my time be to fall in love again. Last I remember it's a wonderful feeling. But when it turns sour and painful, it's something you wouldn't wish to have again soon. Best of luck to both of us. Thanks for sharing. :)
