Fellas would you leave your girl if she gained 100 pounds after giving birth?

LOL, first off that pic is too funny:-) If 34momma put on a 100 pounds having anyone of my chlidren, I would do anything but leave. Those are pounds she put on having my remakable children who bring me all the happyness in the world. I couldn't see myself being that shallow. I thank God it didn't happen, but if it did .... I would do everything I can to be suportive, help her feel good about her self and lose the pounds if possiable. Now, don't go off thinking I'm a sweet guy, because I'm anything but that. If she put on the pounds any other way like ..... Sitting on her butt eating Bon Bon's all day, then it's time for a long talk about the future of our relationship ....LMAO, so I guess I can be shallow after all. Hmmmmmmm, go figure!

I'm not a man but still wanted to give a little input. I agree the health factors should be of more concern than appearance but the majority of men don't think that way. I know of plenty who have been at the very least rude to the women in their lives after a significant weight gain and a few who have cheated or left over it. For me that isn't much of a concern. We've had 3 children together and he knew me through 2 other pregnancies. I can't keep the weight on afterward, to the point of not looking like I just had a baby as I'm leaving the hospital. Mine actually has a (not so-) secret preference for the "bigger boned" women. He'd rather I kept the weight on. I'm 5'3" and normally 105lbs, he seems to start getting "happy" when I get up to 125-130. I almost hit 150 once while pregnant and if I hadn't been so uncomfortable...well I'll just blush a little here and hope you understand what I'm getting at lol.

I have a friend before who gained a lot while pregnant. She wasn't able to shed those extra poundage after giving birth to her first born. The sad part here is that her husband told her right away that she needed to lose those pounds or they will not have those "intimate" session again. How's that? :/ I think men should learn that women have no desire to gain a lot of weight. Instead, they should support and encourage them. Its hard enough to be pregnant. Its harder still to carry those extra slab of fats.