Getting over with the "Affair".............. But how?
@gsgonzalez2007 (1004)
Philippines
April 15, 2007 10:30am CST
Have you had an affair without the knowledge of your spouse?
How did you get over with it? Did you realize that you should not have that affair in the first place? He is married and so you are. But you see him all the time and the old feelings keep coming back. What must be the best thing to do?
wELL, Find a way to not ever see him again. Move if you have to. The healing needs to cost you something so you will never be tempted to do this again. Whatever it takes. Do your spouses know about this affair? You need to be in marriage counseling with your husband to find out what you two have that can make for a solid marriage and work on it. You get over the affair by wiping the slate clean.
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@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
15 Apr 07
hmmmmmmmm
i disaggree
sometimes people want more
i just told her, thats how I dealt with it
sometimes it just won't work
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
be careful about having extra marital affairs. there are times when your partner will simply get tired of your doing so, and thus will decide to leave you forever. when this happens, you can be sure that your relationship is over, as it has gone to a point where it is beyond repair.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
no, i never had an affair like that. there was a classmate though in high school. the family was wrecked. it is good that she had a very forgiving husband. he took her in again after ging through some legal battle of sorts. it was horrifying for their children and so disgusting. the family was put to so much shame, they had to relocate.
