before or after what is your preferance?

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okay here are the rules for this questions, it is a before or after question, but not a now question confused you should be (smile) I am talking about a past love or a future love, not a present love, so anybody that says I have the love of my life now and I don't want anybody else that doesn't count. We will assume that everyone has the love of their life now, this is just a question primarily for those people who are still looking or just got out of a bad relationship or good relationship whatever. Married people you can respond only if you answer before or after not now! Assume you are alone and looking for a mate If you could would you prefer to be with someone from you past, that you once cared for deeply and try to once again bring back that magic, or have you closed that chapter on your life and you want to move on and find somebody new, somebody you have will truly have a great future with, Personally I am with the man I want to be with the rest of my life, but that does not count for this discussion because I said not now, So I think if I was asked this question when I was a young girl I would have said the past. I had fallen in love with a man when I was 16 years old, and I would have given up all of my tomorrows just to be with him. I still loved him as much as 10 years after we broke up. But as I got older I realized that I could not bring back the past, what was done was done and I would have to look at tomorrow and what joy would come to my life, so my answer before or after, yesterday or tomorrow, the answer is tomorrow, always look for tomorrow. To get a positive rating you have to give me a before or after answer, to get best rating you have to tell your story like I did.