not happy with my wife

India
April 16, 2007 1:52am CST
i am not happy with my marriage,as she never care me. can you advise some thing ?
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5 responses
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
The question also is "is she happy with you? and do you also care for her?" sometimes we have to do it first with ourself... and if she loves you...she will do it to you too...You did not say anything more about your relationship with your wife... so I could advice you into that limit. Try to make things work out for both of you rather than feeling sorry... Tell her how much you love her, show her how much you care, those things that you want her to give to you... give it to her first... Be your very best to make things work... I bet you wont have regrets doing that. If still it doesnt work...then maybe i'll believe you that you dont have any reason to be happy and your wife really doesnt care about you. Then maybe you should talk to her..if nothing happens then find your happiness somewhere else.
• United States
17 Apr 07
Very well said. You first need to know if she is happy with you. If you are both not happy in your marriage try and work on things. If that doesn't work then I would suggest trying to find happiness elsewhere.
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
First think of the reason why you marry her. then try to understand things that she do. communicate with her or rather tell her straightly what you dont like about her. Try to save your relationship as long as you love her. dont let your differences destroy what you've started.
• India
16 Apr 07
I think Trust, love, care is d base for every marriage. In some marriages, like ur's , may be due to distrust or something else, care is lacking in ur relationship. Its better to talk wid her clearly about d issues rather than increasing the differences between u and her.
@minty3 (592)
• Nigeria
16 Apr 07
hello here, its hard to guess what the problem actually is. But then, love attracts care so if you really love her and show her how much she'll care for you in return. Besides, try to find out if she has any greviance. Its possible you hurt her at one point or the other without realising it; so find out and when the real issue is discovered, addressing it will be easier. Nice day!
@Madona1 (2096)
• Gibraltar
16 Apr 07
Everything has a reason. If you are not happy with your marriage, is your wife happy with her marriage? I think it will be wise if you can have a full discussion with your wife to review your marriage and tell her you are not happy and see what she tells you. Since you didn't give us any details of your current unhappiness, I am unable to advise you further.