if forget is the best result for lossing love?

hi sallyxu! when i still belong to the lonely hearts club when my ex bf left me for another girl, it was so hard for me to forget our past 7 year relationship, it took me almost a year to completely accept that the relationship is over and move on. For me acceptance - accept the fact that the relationship is not meant to last, someone out there is waiting for you and you deserve someone better. It's not that easy to forget someone who once part of your life but as they say time is a great healer gradually it will happen, you could let go of the pain but still cannot forget. Im so sorry to disagree, because for me acceptance is better step to take in moving on. Sometimes, it helps if you will have someone to take place but it will be unfair to the other party if you do not in love with him/her completely.

I think forget is the best way to heal the hurt after break up. But, the problem is how to forget and to forget a person who i really devote my love is very hard and even i can forget, it will take a long period to do so. based on my experience, to forget a people, we can't force ourself to forget the person becasue once we push our harder, the deeper the person will stay inside our heart. So, while trying to forget someone, i will do other things. Just to make myself busy so that i don't have the time to think about my ex. When the time goes by, we can feel that the feeling and the missing of our ex will gradually decrease. one day, you will realise and feel that, your ex is no longer important to you and that time, it is suitable to start a new love. There are many good guys and girls out there waiting for us to explore and meet and we never know the person we meet is far better than our ex.

yeah its easy for people to say that, its true we have to forget the love that left us with hurt but its takes times and courage to be able to do that.i've been in that once and its really hurt alot, but there's a time if we want to open our eyes and ears to realize that losing lover is not the end of the world, there are so many things more valuable besides spending our tears and heart fo long time

I don't think that you need to necessarily forget, but only to accept that things are no longer the way they were. Once you accept that it is over between the two of you, you will eventually be ready to move on. It may take some time, so don't try to rush things, but don't hold on to the past either.

hello sallyxu126! all i can say is for you to forget that love story so that you will be able to start a new and better one. just look forward and try to keep yourself busy at things. there are really moments in life that you are not capable of controlling the events where you can just decide to do the right thing... and that is to let go of it and start choosing another busy days and be focus on that stuff and just forget the bad memries of yeaterday's wounds... time is the best healer it eases pain and heals all wounds.... start believin and dream on for a new life okei?

I think forget is not the best result for losing love.. well.. i personally think that it is best to forget the bad memories of the relationship and retain the good memories.. in this way.. it will be much easier to become friends after break up.. Not only that.. we should also learn from the relationship that what has went wrong when we are together so that we will not repeat it in the next relationship..