Negative reaction...

@juliefaye (1214)
Philippines
April 16, 2007 3:45am CST
How would you react if you're responding to a discussion and you give your opinion and there is a negative reaction that comes to a point where you are personally attacked.. this person even calling you "ignorant" and "can hardly make a sensible argument" even asks you "do you know how to read"? We don't even know each other but she's telling me that what she said is a FACT about me and not an opinion. If you were on my shoe, what will you do?
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9 responses
• United States
16 Apr 07
report the b*tch. personal attacks are against the guidelines. in fact here is the line in the "DONT's" for posting; "Post to “flame” other users! Being mean to others is just not fun. Anything derogatory that is directed at a myLot user is strictly prohibited. Just be nice and have fun!" tell her she has been reported and that its obvious she has no manners and shoudnt she be in school (or bed lol) if she's gonna act like a child.
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@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Thanks! I report her to mylot admin.
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@edujccz (929)
• Philippines
24 May 07
Im sorry if it was me, but surely you are hurt by such word and they are no good. I learn a lot from this site, before i was tackless and arrogant as if i know everything , but this time, i learn to make discussions a little bit and my english was practiced. So far, i have not recieved those words and if i do, i will thank him for waking me up. i will have to look on the other side of the coin that maybe i can get something from what he is saying, anyhow, he dont know who i am and there is no way he can hurt me. all this are all opinion. Good day
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
25 May 07
Each of us has diff ideas and opinions and sometimes we don't know that we hurt others feelings and it's a good thing that sometimes too, we realize it. But it's not you my dear.. i was referring to a she and definitely its not you.. thanks for responding and have a nice day ahead!
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@edujccz (929)
• Philippines
25 May 07
thank you julie, i simply wanted to payback your response, my comment is not related. good day to you.
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
3 Aug 07
hi juliefaye I didn't have a chance to read that post before it was deleted..I'm a friend of gabs and hun let me tell you I know exactly what you are going through hun I do..On my first day here in mylot I was attacked and harassed and it was her saying fact not opinion was a big big mess...hugzzzz I'm here for you if you need me..I will explain why it made me so upset...
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@gabs8513 (48710)
• United Kingdom
3 Aug 07
Sweetheart this is a bit late but please just ignore People like that do not give them the time of Day as I certainly don't anymore You have Friends that will back you and support you
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
23 Apr 07
I had this happen to me awhile back. A rude reply well if you would of read this right I would have a better response. I answered back with well excuse me and then I reread it and gave another answer of course my score was knocked from a 10 to a 9 but that made me upset. I mean I was only giving my feedback of what I felt and then I was made to feel stupid for doing so. I understand how you feel also.
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
16 Apr 07
I think it is really horrible the way some respond when they think differently. I would just ignore them and continue on with real good people. I try to not respond to any form of hatred.
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
23 Apr 07
I had this happen to me awhile back. A rude reply well if you would of read this right I would have a better response. I answered back with well excuse me and then I reread it and gave another answer of course my score was knocked from a 10 to a 9 but that made me upset. I mean I was only giving my feedback of what I felt and then I was made to feel stupid for doing so. I understand how you feel also.
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Thanks for responding shaun.. my rating was knocked from 7 to 1 and i read a post here that says the reason for it is when somebody rate you negative, so I return the favor to those who I suspect gave me that rate.
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
29 Jun 07
I don't blame you it has happend to me also. I have learned just to inore them myself they need to go get a life.
@coolseeds (3921)
• United States
4 Aug 07
I responded to a discussion about you getting some weirdo placing crude tags on your discussions. I said if MyLot will not do anything you should put in 5 tags so they will not show up. Then the person would not bother to tag it. So everyone wanted to attack me. I have seen on MyLot that you should never disagree with a discussion or you will get attacked. MyLot isn't for opinions. It is to suck up. Agree with the person who started the discussion otherwise you will get negatives and your star rating will go down. I still think if you want to do something about it you shouldn't be lazy. Put in 5 tags.
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
Thanks coolseeds.. yeah, life is too short for that! i like what you have written in your profile.
• Philippines
3 Aug 07
That was a very usual scene here. We are luckier if they wont start discussions that would appear like taking it personally on us. I answer those negative comments if they appear insulting but most of the time, I do it using the Private Messaging. I wouldnt not hesitate to let them know they had offended me if what they are saying are so grave. But I had learned to ignore the rest. We have to get used to some people here who love creating arguments rather than just express their opinions.