choose:: ONE NIGHT STAND or RELATIONSHIPS?

RELATIONSHIP! it's hard for me to have a romance with someone i don't love.

Hmmm.. well.. i definitely choose relationships over one night stand.. relationships is like a long term investment with a low risk profile where u need to invest your time and love to get comfort when you are down and to share the joy when you are happy.. Whereas for one night stand.. is like share investment with high risk profile.. what if the partner is HIV positive?? you will definitely contract HIV and this will ruin your life.. is just like a moment of need that may destroy your life forever..

I would definitely choose relationship.. :) I have not been on a one night stand nor will I ever do it.. I can't just go around playing with other people with no strings attached, I mean I would rather go on a relationship knowing the person I'm with has feelings for me.. I've been in a relationship and I'm contented and happy that way, his feelings and mine are both important to me.

I prefer relationships over one night stands being why I've never had a one night stand. I just couldn't see myself having a high level of intimacy with someone who's a stranger or someone that I'm not in a relationship with. Besides, isn't it much more of an adventure and learning experience if you're in a relationship simply because you learn and grow as a unit? I'd like to think so.

Hi nengs! Pretty good discussion. For me, ill prefer relationship over one night stand and i don't have any plans of having a one night stand as well, i won't be comfortable with it and i can't think of doing it in the future. I couldn't just imagine myself making love or showing intimacy to someone i don't know completely in the first place.

Relationship! I have never had a one night stand, nor would I want to. I would imagine a one night stand would be sort of uncomfortable, especially once it's over. I like relationships though, there is something nice about knowing the person you care about, likes you and respects you and shows you affection on a regular basis.

I'll choose relationship or one night stand anyday. I have had both. There is no 'romance' in a one night stand. There is no feeling or anything like that. Some people get into one night stands by mistake. For some, you can be a 'victim' of a one night stand, as was my case. I thought there was feeling, but it only was on my part. I am in a relationship right now (for good) and it is the most wonderful thing. The excitement, the romance and the joy beats any one night stand any day. 3 years worth!

Of course relationship... I never experienced one night stand and i prefer not to try it at all... I guess those who choose to do one night stand are those people who dont want to get involve seriously into someone... or they are the one who hates commitment and responsibity. But me, once i do something i always prefer to face the responsibity and consequences of what i choose to do... I hate being coward and be ot the safe side always of what i intend to do... I want direction... future... challenge...lesson...strength and success in life...and in relationship.