who dominates your marriage/relationship? the lady? or the man?

lovers - nikki and xy
Philippines
April 16, 2007 12:16pm CST
As for me, I use to control our relationship, but he dominates it because I'm still studying and he gets to work for us. how bout you?
2 responses
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
16 Apr 07
I guess he and I would both say that I do but I wish that he did. I tend to make the rules and impliment them. I would perfer though not having to be the rule maker and the enforcer. I even wish he would decide on things and let me just say ok that works for me. If there was a way to change it I would because I would rather lead then follow.
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
I get to experience that way too. Sometimes when we are in a date, he'll ask me where to eat, but since I don't usually eat at restaurants I don't have any idea, then he will get mad at the end. Oh well
@ozzydee70 (465)
• Germany
16 Apr 07
It have to be both for the marriage/relationship to last, its give and take that will rule not just mine, me and I.