Do you feel "vengeance" or "forgiveness"?
By w1z111
@w1z111 (985)
United States
April 16, 2007 1:20pm CST
If someone behaves in a way that offends, irritates or makes you angry, do you typically feel"vengeance", and possibly seek revenge? Or...do you normally feel "forgiveness", and go on your way?
2 responses
@Rickrocks8 (1751)
• United States
16 Apr 07
I forgive, but it is the forgetting that I have issues with. I also think it take time to learn to be a forgiving person and most people are not that way. But forgiveness will set you free. good luck!
@w1z111 (985)
• United States
17 Apr 07
Yes, the forgetting...that is the tough part. Not much can help there except love, time and a perpetually positive outlook on life in general, I guess. You're right, too, about forgiveness setting one free...long as they learn to forget!
Thanks for the post.
@Zorrogirl (1502)
• South Africa
16 Apr 07
When the problem persists, i tend to ignore and try to stay nice. theres nothing someone hates more than ignorance when they try to get you down. if you show emotion they would have think they won.it makes you stronger too, if you can be the bigger person and not let them get to you. its a habbit worth learning. its very difficult but possible.
