redeemgurl

@redeemgurl (108)

United States • Age 37

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Would you marry someone who is attractive but lacking in intelligence?

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 2 Aug 11

Let us say there is a girl or a guy you find extremely attractive - this person is a ten on your scale. You have been dating them for awhile and you know that their light bulb is not the brightest. They are the kind of person who...

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redeemgurl For some, that may not be an important quality in a person. Not saying there is anything wrong with that, but for me... communication is very important. I love to learn, and I love talking to someone who can teach me things. If I felt like a person could never...

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Would you tell her or not?

hot_legs15 @hot_legs15 (132) • Philippines 16 May 11

When accidentally you saw your friend's boyfriend dating with another girl in a posh exclusive restaurant, would you tell your friend the truth or would you rather spare her of the emotional betrayal? Many of us have...

betrayal

friendship

loyalty

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redeemgurl I have met girls who get upset and run to their boyfriends and of course they lie and cover their tracks, and try to make you into the liar. Really you have to know the girl, will she believe you over him? There is a huge possibility he is going to lie his way...

16 May 11

Don't you wish men got periods too?

Michelle @infatuatedbby (94909) • United States 16 May 11

We ladies have to go each month getting our menstrual cycle (period). Ladies have to go through the pain of pregnancy too (never been pregnant so I don't know how that feels yet) but don't you sometimes wish men would get periods...

men

menstrual cycle

period

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redeemgurl I told my boyfriend if he had a period he would lay in bed for a whole week and cry and say everyone hates him and complain how bad his cramps are because he is already a whinner lol!

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Foster care what do you think?

tink91879 @tink91879 (742) • United States 13 May 11

So for a few years I have thought of becoming a foster parent. I have two children 8 and 5. My husband is in the Navy and Im a stay at home Mom. We have wanted a third child and after three years of trying nothing. I long for...

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redeemgurl I have never done foster care, but I plan to in my future. I admire the fact that you have the same passion to do foster care. There are so many kids out there that could use a good home, even if it is a temporary home. You could teach them so much and provide...

13 May 11

Disliking my boyfriend's sister

dream_ozn @dream_ozn (1752) • Singapore 8 May 11

I am currently into my 5th year with my current boyfriend. We usually settle our disagreements quite well but there is one problem that sits throughout our relationship and this i believe will be here forever. I hate my...

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redeemgurl She is the youngest, and because she is young she is still immature. As the years go by, she will probably grow up a lot and will be easier to tolerate. Don't let it get to you too bad.

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College here I come...

edsss17 @edsss17 (4394) • Philippines 5 May 11

Finally, I am going to college this June.. I graduated on high school a year ago! and I thought I am not going to college anymore because of we are not financially stable.. But good God still heard me! I was granted by a...

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redeemgurl It took me 2 years after High School to go to college because I was not financially stable enough to go. I understand how you feel. I am happy for you! Don't give up, I'm still hanging in there and I have a year and a half left on my Bachelors. It is hard...

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Osama Bin Laden killed by USA, will this stop terrorism??

venkit @venkit (2955) • India 1 May 11

The lead news of the day is the death of Osama Bin Laden.American president Obama in his statements announced the death of Laden with great pleasure, but will this bring full stop to terrorism?? Laden has been attacked and killed...

osama dead

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redeemgurl You are right, but I think after 9/11 the USA learned not to let their guard down about terrorism. It is sad to say that there are many other people in this world that will step up to the plate to make terror attacks on countries. I just hope that this war...

2 May 11

Adivce on nose rings...

jen_barre @jen_barre (104) • United States 11 Jun 09

Hi mylotters... I need advice. I have a nose ring and it's recently been told to me that it's part of dress code policy to cover up nose rings. I didn't know of this policy prior to making the director of HR angry...

work issues

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redeemgurl They have clear one's you can put in that will blend in for that purpose. You have to go somewhere that sells piercing jewelry and they should have one.

2 May 11

What Do You Think Of Copies Being Made Of Kate Middleton's Dress?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 1 May 11

Already there are copies of Kate's dress being made in China in double-quick time, ready for those brides who want to wear a cheaper version of it. What do you think about this? Personally, I loved my own wedding dress I...

copying celebrities

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redeemgurl It happens all the time... as soon as a celeb walks out the door, they better be ready for someone to knock off their clothes. I would never base my wedding dress off of a celeb unless I really liked the style, but I would not go for an exact match. I like to...

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Do you think teen pregnancy is okay?

BrianaJillx3 @BrianaJillx3 (20) • United States 1 May 11

I have spent a lot of time lately watching Mtv's Teen Mom, as well as 16 & Pregnant. I've seen a lot of the girls on the show who actually took on their responsibilities as a teen mother, and others who were totally irresponsible....

teen mom

teen parenting

teen pregnancy

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redeemgurl It depends on how you look at it, there are always two sides to it. I don't have any kids myself, but almost everyone of my friends had kids in their teen years. Sometimes kids are exactly what people need to calm them down. I have one friend who had her first...

1 May 11

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are you an observant person? do you have sharp memory?

Curlann @annierose (21660) • Philippines 1 May 11

whenever you are walking on the street, do you look at the people that you meet along the way? Do you pay attention to animals or things that you see while you are in a particular place? When you are in a long trip, do you pay...

awareness

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redeemgurl Sometimes I am observant, and at other times I am not. I think it depends with if I have a lot going on or if I am in a bad mood when I lack being observant. My memory is the same, it seems like some days I have a great memory and other days my memory it...

1 May 11

How can you tell if the job is really not for you?

reco13 @reco13 (605) • Philippines 1 May 11

It's so hard for me to work as a nurse here in the Philippines. Although it is my innate nature to care and serve others, I just can't seem to find happiness in my career. I really want to pursue being in business. I feel like I...

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redeemgurl You have to do what makes you happy, even if it is not what your family wants you to do. If you want to be a business woman, you should save up for a business, or go back to school for business. My mom is a nurse, so I know how hard the work can be. If you are...

1 May 11

I can't have him

tessa9 @tessa9 (1085) • Philippines 1 May 11

There is this one guy who I have known for awhile but just recently started to get to know. I was always attracted at him physically but know that I am getting to know him more, he is just... I don't know. He is amazing. He's...

life

love

relationship

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redeemgurl Timing is everything... and even though it seems like he would be great for you, you never know how bad things might be if you were to be with him. I have been in many relationships and at first thought the guy was wonderful, to find out later how bad of...

1 May 11

what if men were to give birth

haqueen @haqueen (236) • United States 30 Apr 11

i think this world would be very disorderly and crazy for men to give birth, i gues it would be a great thing to see this happen i would love to see this men suffer. you know men never understand the pains of labour, and yet they...

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redeemgurl If men could have babies... I wnder where the baby would have to come out of? lol... scary thought, but honestly if a man had to have a baby they would be ten times worst than women!

30 Apr 11

What would you give up, breakfast or bath?

Harold_ks @Harold_ks (1673) 27 Apr 11

After I finished writing my other discussion prior to this, this idea comes to my mind and I guess although related, it still a different topic. In going to work or school in the morning, let's say you've got not enough time...

breakfast or bath

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redeemgurl Definitely need a shower!!! I rather feel clean and eat later. I cannot stand feeling like I need to bathe. That is a clever discussion... kind of funny too.

27 Apr 11

Do you worry about matching accessories?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 22 Apr 11

I saw this lady and she was matching from head to toe. Made me wonder how many people actually match EVERYTHING. Her nails were painted to match her shoes and shirt...her eyeshadow was the same color as her purse and skirt..I...

color coordinated everything

matching accessories

time

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redeemgurl I used to be like that and it is a lot of work and time. Changing the contents of one purse to the other became aggervating. Sometimes trying on all my jewelry to find the best match would take forever, and I just had enough. I have a friend now that is like...

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And I will love You ...until my dying day...!

Jane @jaiho2009 (39140) • Philippines 22 Apr 11

Some great love stories like Romeo and Juliet proves this line "i will love you ,until my dying day". How many of you knows same story like this... Or how many of you are in this kind of realtionship. Lucky are...

undying love by jaiho

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redeemgurl I enjoy love stories, but they are not realistic in my experiences. I feel like chivalry is dead in my society. Men do not hold doors, it is okay for women to buy the meals, and actually it makes the man cooler if he can get women to do that. Usually the kind...

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How much per gallon is GAS where you live??

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 21 Apr 11

Since we're from all over, I'd like to see how much everybody ELSE is paying and the comparisons. Right now the cheapest I can find here is around $4.08 a gallon - I'm in California. How much is your gas where you live? If the...

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redeemgurl I am in North Carolina and I bought gas yesterday at $3.75, but I have seen it up to $3.81 a couple days before that. Gas is higher at american ran stores around here. The cheaper places are muslim ran stores. Stores off of highways and in middle of nowhere...

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Do I need a therapist ?

llsling @llsling (331) • China 21 Apr 11

I don't know how embarrassing it really is talking about the life of myself ,I am about to turn 25 in a few months and I've been getting myself into a terrible situation for my whole life . Well ,as far as I can tell my folks made...

life

mental problem

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redeemgurl If you hold in your problems, it will cause you go crazy. You need to talk about your problems. Sometimes talking to a counselor can help because it is confidential. The bad thing about most counselors where I live is they want to drug people up on anxiety...

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Were people always so self serving?

megamatt @megamatt (14290) • United States 21 Apr 11

I think to an extent they were, but not to the extent that they are today. It is just a byproduct of a changing world. People are struggling and a lot of them are dealing with struggles in a way that might not be the best....

people

self serving

selfish

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redeemgurl That is the way society is becoming. It is terrible because sometimes it is dangerous to not be like this. Now days if you see someone broke down on side of the road, it can be dangerous to ask if they need help. I wish humans were more decent, but in reality...

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