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rjblueyes @rjblueyes (215) • United States 11 Jan 11

If you are truely my friend and I was on a diet, and I thought I was starting to loose weight, would you tell me otherwise if you thought so? Or would you just say something nasty and mean because you're jealous? Would you tell me...

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yumcookie There are people who are at a healthy weight and think they need to lose weight, if this person was close to me I would simply tell them they don't need to lose the weight. If they had said they were on a diet and they didn't look like they lost weight I would...

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rjblueyes @rjblueyes (215) • United States 11 Jan 11

I'm seriously considering going back to school. I want to go for computer programming, like IT stuff. I totally understand it, and something about it just calls to me. Should I go? If so, any suggestions on where and where not to...

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SirCroichy Do It! It's never too late. It will be a tough journey, but well worth it.

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rjblueyes @rjblueyes (215) • United States 11 Jan 11

I'm seriously considering going back to school. I want to go for computer programming, like IT stuff. I totally understand it, and something about it just calls to me. Should I go? If so, any suggestions on where and where not to...

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xiaoanorincess You know what,my friend who have worked told me taht school is very pure place compired to the society!so I suppose going back to school is a good choice,I did't mean that you just learn the book knowledge,you can learn how to get along well with your...

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rjblueyes @rjblueyes (215) • United States 11 Jan 11

I'm seriously considering going back to school. I want to go for computer programming, like IT stuff. I totally understand it, and something about it just calls to me. Should I go? If so, any suggestions on where and where not to...

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astreadido Education is always a good investment. Go for it especially if you really enjoy the course you'll be taking. You'll be able to learn and enjoy at the same time. Good luck!

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rjblueyes @rjblueyes (215) • United States 11 Jan 11

I'm seriously considering going back to school. I want to go for computer programming, like IT stuff. I totally understand it, and something about it just calls to me. Should I go? If so, any suggestions on where and where not to...

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yumcookie You should definitely go back to school if you have the financial means to do so. You could always better your life by doing so. If you are really serious about going to school you should look into ITT Tech. They are a great school and are all across the...

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

being rude does hurt

kindness never hurts

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tamarafireheart Hi Hatley, All too often people are ready to put people down when something like this happens, its not the poster's fault if he no longer can afford the vet bill, but it depends on where you live, but he can get help to pay for the vet bill. Tamara

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased Kashmeresmycat yes it just struck me as being really unkind and rather thoughtless. People who are in no pain just do' not realize that there are so many out of work and they almost all have had pets for years. No keep your cat and do' whatever you can he...

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

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Kashmeresmycat You know Hatley, people sometimes are just so insensitive to other people's feelings, it gets downright irritating after a while. Number one, the person who answered that way I'm sure is not in any financial need, probably has a great job, or a husband who...

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

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catdla1 Hi Hatley! Thanks! Did you see that I found the discussion you were referencing? The individual who was so unkind seemed to think that affordable and comprehensive pet insurance was available globally. I gave (I think) a more encouraging and kinder answer and...

12 Jan 10

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased hi catdla1 yes thats the way I felt too as things now in'our economy can change so fast as my own life changed, and we did not do anything wrong but it still happened. I wondered about that too, I can imagine how he would feel in that situation and that does...

12 Jan 10

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

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catdla1 It was a very unkind and thoughtless thing to say for a couple of reasons. One, as the pet owner stated and is all too frequently true today, financial situations can change in a flash. Families that enjoyed expensive homes, multiple cars and all the other...

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased yes I think he thought he was helping but the person posting about his dog did not feel that way and thus he was far from being helped. a postive thing would have been to suggest he may' be able to find a place that assists pet owners when they have financial...

12 Jan 10

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

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mlhuff12 The reason we put up discussions is sometimes for help on a problem and ones opinion. You can't expect that when you put up a discussion for people not to put what they really think. Granted that person could have been a little more sensitive to the certain...

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

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mlhuff12 I agree that we should try to be sensitive to others. However, some people are so thick headed that they may not even know what they're saying and how it really looks.

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

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purplealabaster That is a very good point. They might think that they are being helpful, and that might truly be their motivation, but to other people reading their words, they really are sounding cruel and insensitive. I did have one experience with somebody like that. This...

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