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preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 21 Sep 11

I am 45 years and for financial reason and because my sister is not married. I am single still. I have only few friends and no girl friends. Chatting is the only way to ease myself.I feel lonely these Days.Friends suggest i get...

lonely

marriage

money

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sanjana_aslam most of our parents marriage did not fail ~ they learned to live with each other ~ they learned to accept the person as who they were ~ they learned after a certain age they needed one another as companion and not tools Hatley is right, you will jump...

21 Sep 11

merenwen315 @merenwen315 (123) • Philippines 21 Sep 11

Hello guys! I'm really interested on how one differs with relationship with a person with other people. You see, some of my friends complain about their in-laws. The reason is, they correct everything she/he does, or they always...

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sanjana_aslam i have friends who have this type of MIL, most of the people in this family are open-minded and they think way beyond many older generations ... You are one lucky woman, Remember when it is your turn to be a MIL, you must apply her methods no matter how much...

21 Sep 11

merenwen315 @merenwen315 (123) • Philippines 21 Sep 11

Hello guys! I'm really interested on how one differs with relationship with a person with other people. You see, some of my friends complain about their in-laws. The reason is, they correct everything she/he does, or they always...

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sanjana_aslam wow that is long

21 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 21 Sep 11

I have mixed feeling... first i will be angry but as time goes by it changes into worries ... it worsens when the person does not answer calls .... But i am used to it now ... my hubby is smart .. he does not answer his phone...

late

worried

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sanjana_aslam zandi ... actually i dont want to worry when he is with his drinking partners, to be exact i enjoy the time by myself at home alone ..... but as the time ticks past 12mn i get all worked up, what if he is too drunk ... there were few occacions he came home all...

21 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 21 Sep 11

I have mixed feeling... first i will be angry but as time goes by it changes into worries ... it worsens when the person does not answer calls .... But i am used to it now ... my hubby is smart .. he does not answer his phone...

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sanjana_aslam lucky girlfriend

21 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 21 Sep 11

I have mixed feeling... first i will be angry but as time goes by it changes into worries ... it worsens when the person does not answer calls .... But i am used to it now ... my hubby is smart .. he does not answer his phone...

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sanjana_aslam i guess what you said is tru ... many people are always late ... they simply do not want to change

21 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 19 Sep 11

My husband will be a lawyer at 50 ~ Yes !!! he will be graduating next June compliting his 4 year journey as adult student .... It has been a though 3 years and final year is here .. We will be starting a new chapter in our...

adult student

goal

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sanjana_aslam never too later for anything dear

19 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 19 Sep 11

We have the power to effect meaningful and positive change (http://www.powerofwomen.com/) Why dont we realise ~ we work 8 hours (and sometimes more) and come home to be a housekeeper, cook, laundry manager, mother, bedmate,...

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sanjana_aslam We are not weak .... but that is how we are 'branded' and many are consumed by that brand ..... you are right we can bring down an elephant and harder when we know the elephant is almost going to kill our children ....

19 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 19 Sep 11

Every discussion we write on here tells a story and opinion of each individual. Who we are and what kind of people we are are revealed by our words . MYLOT is like a puzzle and all of us are like children moving each piece to make...

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sanjana_aslam hi jazzy .... you are welcome to positive or negative opinions over the topic but not to make the other feel like you are pushing them too much when you stand to your point and dont give them time to breath .....

19 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 19 Sep 11

The whole weekend was a bum .... just because i did something which my hubby disagreed, we did not communicate well at all. He was in the house going about his own things and me too. The remote was in his hands and i had to watch...

opinion

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sanjana_aslam i know .....what i dont understand is .... the war starts in the morning (kind of end in middle of night ~ he will make me his bolster) then start again in the morning ...... i feel like Bolster Mania ... (dont worry dear he loves me ~ its kind of our joke too...

19 Sep 11

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sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 19 Sep 11

The whole weekend was a bum .... just because i did something which my hubby disagreed, we did not communicate well at all. He was in the house going about his own things and me too. The remote was in his hands and i had to watch...

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sanjana_aslam hei ... i like husband who cooks, i believe it calms them down, hv tried training him but he is simply lazy bum .... Let me share wt u the situation yar !! he said lets go temple ... i said ok ... On Fridays we normally go to 'Temple A' temple...

19 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 19 Sep 11

The whole weekend was a bum .... just because i did something which my hubby disagreed, we did not communicate well at all. He was in the house going about his own things and me too. The remote was in his hands and i had to watch...

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sanjana_aslam zandi .... no battlefield at my home only silent treatment ... i cant get hold of tv remote or the laptop ....(i end up sleeping)

19 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 19 Sep 11

The whole weekend was a bum .... just because i did something which my hubby disagreed, we did not communicate well at all. He was in the house going about his own things and me too. The remote was in his hands and i had to watch...

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sanjana_aslam he is my hubby of 5 years and lover of 14 years ~ he is good when we communicate he can push me to a corner to believe that i was selfish for my choice to happen .....i will follow his choice but, i hv to fight for mine which are simple are rare...

19 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 18 Sep 11

In this life we are given many selection and we prefer one above others. Of course if we have that weapon called Big "M" our choices in life would be greater .... With Big "M" ~ i would go holidays Overseas and not...

money

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sanjana_aslam I feel it dear .... i feel it ... our holiday was at a small beach resort locally, and we choose the cheapest hotel ..... his family who joined us did not understand why we choose the place ~ well we had to pay for it, Big M does not grow on trees

19 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 18 Sep 11

In this life we are given many selection and we prefer one above others. Of course if we have that weapon called Big "M" our choices in life would be greater .... With Big "M" ~ i would go holidays Overseas and not...

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sanjana_aslam that was the main reason my hubby actually stopped smoking (not health but Big M)

19 Sep 11

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 18 Sep 11

In this life we are given many selection and we prefer one above others. Of course if we have that weapon called Big "M" our choices in life would be greater .... With Big "M" ~ i would go holidays Overseas and not...

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sanjana_aslam nice way to put it ~ PRISONER OF BIG M

19 Sep 11

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