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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 26 Apr 07

Wow! I cant believe how lon i have been off mylot. As some people know, i went offline for quite sometime because my husband came over for one full month. It was a great month to be withi him again after 4months of being away. But...

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coconutpatty I'm one of those newer members. =) I am glad that you had a month to spend with your husband. That must have been so wonderful. Especially since it had been a while since you last saw him. It will be nice when you get to go to Canada with him! Good luck.

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 26 Apr 07

Wow! I cant believe how lon i have been off mylot. As some people know, i went offline for quite sometime because my husband came over for one full month. It was a great month to be withi him again after 4months of being away. But...

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mrbranan Welcome back. I'm gald you came back I'm glad you got to spend time with your husband. I to had to go for a while and just came back about a week ago.

27 Apr 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 26 Apr 07

I came to ponder on this topic when i was watching again one of my favorite shows. My husband and i were both on the "we dont know" answers really. It all depends so they say will be the common answer. What choice will you make...

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sigma77 This is a difficult question. The answer is to let the child be born. After that, anything can happen. What everyone chooses to be perfection or normal is only the result of the majority agreeing it is so. That does not mean that the majority knows what...

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 26 Apr 07

I came to ponder on this topic when i was watching again one of my favorite shows. My husband and i were both on the "we dont know" answers really. It all depends so they say will be the common answer. What choice will you make...

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lucky_witch In my opinion... I would rather have my baby than commit abortion... Its still my child and no matter what is his/her condition... I would choose to give him the chance to live... I would care for him/her no matter what. If in time,... God will take him/her...

27 Apr 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 26 Apr 07

I came to ponder on this topic when i was watching again one of my favorite shows. My husband and i were both on the "we dont know" answers really. It all depends so they say will be the common answer. What choice will you make...

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sunshinelady I would choose to have the baby. Even scientist can't really say how a baby is going to be born. It is not right to take the life of the unborn child. Who are we to determine that since the child might have a deformity than we will not have the child. So---we...

27 Apr 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 26 Apr 07

I came to ponder on this topic when i was watching again one of my favorite shows. My husband and i were both on the "we dont know" answers really. It all depends so they say will be the common answer. What choice will you make...

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chickangel That is a good question. I have 3 healthy girls. I refused to take the test. I turned it down so they couldn't ask me that question depending on reasults. I new that no matter what I would have my baby, and I would deal with what ever God had instore for...

27 Apr 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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vishal_patel Till now I found that men have extra maritial affiars when they like changes. They are continuously looking for challanges. They found challange in extra maritial affairs as well. This is not like that they don't like their wife your gf. but they just have fun...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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tater03 I think that in some cases they don't know when they start dating that the man is married. But then again there are women that love to date married men and don't care who they hurt. Those types of women to me are dispicable. But I guess if people didn't stray...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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complexvanilla A great many of these third-party women as you call them are insecure and unsure of either themselves, or their positions in life. Some times its love, sometimes lust, sometimes greed or malice, but most of the time, it's plain stupidity. These women are...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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ESKARENA1 there is a species of women who are only interested in married men. In my opinion they tend to have low self esteem and simply want to promote their own status over the mans wife. They often have little, if any interest in the man as such, its the married...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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mavrone_yefriend The reason canvary from person to person and from incident to incident. It might be to spoil the happy relationship, it might be inflatuation, might be true love, might be some challege or testing the man etc etc. Such things have happened and will happen,...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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sanjaypatel250174 I beleive some women actually get into an affair with a married man knowingly.Like they say love knows no restrictions...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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domesticengineer I think we need to hear from them to fully understand them. They have of course valid reasons for staying in the relationship which involves her as a third party. I think we could explain their feelings if we somehow emphatize with them. Let's say let's put...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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Gemmygirl1 Did anyone think to ask - did the 3rd party even know the person they were with was already in a relationship. How do you know that the 3rd party didn't think they were the only one in the cheater's life? Not every married man/woman who has an affair - tells...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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kitikatz Sometimes its because the relationship gives them convenience. Then eventually, they fall in love with their man and it would be very hard for them to walk out of the relationship anymore... It scares me actually.. Its difficult to accept if your partner...

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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fallenrain132321 Seeing as most people have covered fear of commitment I won't repeat that answer again. I will instead say that I think a lot of the reasons why women have an affair with a married man is because in a way it makes them feel better. Especially women with a low...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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liranlgo i think they are not really thinking.. or maybe they have such a low esteem that it is most comfortble for them to be the "third wheel" they do not really care about the women that he is married to and they do not really care about the man they are seeing...

26 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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smints8985 The probabilities are endless, yes a woman might be tricked into this kind of a relationship, a married man could have lied about being single and tricked the woman into falling for him. Another is that a woman who doesn't care about the world and the...

25 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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lucy02 I think a lot of them do fall in love. Women tend to be a bit more romantic than men. I've seen women waste their youth on men who are married that they fall in love with. They just don't seem to be able to pull themselves away.

25 Mar 07

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sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 24 Mar 07

We are used to talking to why guys cheat? Or to why guys usually have extra marital affairs and such? But we failed to ask what were those "third-party women" thinking when they got into a relationship with married men. What is...

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PunkyMcPunk sigh... I have been the other woman. I didn't know. Honestly. We started to "date"... dinner, movies, etc.. we lived in separate towns he always came to my town. I didnt read anything into it aside from him being chivalrous and gentlemanly by coming to me and...

25 Mar 07

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