simplychic

@simplychic (41)

Philippines • Age 53

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Are you the favorite or the least favorite child?

klystron635 @klystron635 (1519) • Philippines 28 Nov 12

Hi! I grew up in a family of four. For 11 years, my father worked overseas. Sad to say, I have few childhood memories about him. My mother, on the other hand, was a stay-at-home mom. Though, she started working when my brother and...

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simplychic My parents don't have favorites. They love us all. Maybe, in some situations, children think that their parents have favorites especially when one or two of them get the most attention from their parents. It's probably because needs differ from one another as...

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Do we really need to give presents during Christmas?

Andyvil @Andyvil (793) • Philippines 12 Dec 11

In my country people usually give presents to their godchildren during Christmas. We also give presents to our niece and nephews during this season. If a friend gives us a present we usually feel obliged to give that person a gift...

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simplychic In my country, it has been a tradition to give gifts. However, it is still just an option if one can afford it. Giving gifts is one of the things that makes christmas, merry, but it's the thought that counts; so any gift, expensive or not, should be well...

3 Jan 12

Do you ask questions?? Or settle for what you know??

sweetaprillynn @sweetaprillynn (207) • United States 8 Sep 11

Growing up in an era considered the 'information age' has given me the desire to learn! I am a very curious person, and when I hear about or am asked about any subject I do not know much about, I will search for the answers. Every...

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simplychic I'm so glad to know that there's someone who's exactly as curious as I am. I also search for details about every subject I don't know much about that's why I spend a lot of time browsing the net researching about almost anything. I love learning new things and...

9 Sep 11

Hurricanes should be named after women not men

stary1 @stary1 (6611) • United States 9 Sep 11

Well I am disappointed they started using men's names for hurricanes. I don't know if it was the feminist influence or what, but I think it is more appropriate to name them with womens names. A man hurricane just...

hurricane names

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simplychic I agree with bostonphil. The names have already been picked before hurricane season begins. To me, it doesn't matter whether they use a female's name or a male's name. What should bother us is the fact that hurricanes are strong enough to claim lives.

9 Sep 11

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How do you make your own luck?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17380) • Canada 13 Aug 10

I just met a person who said that he didn't believe in bad luck or good luck. He said that he makes his own luck. Personally I thought he was just all talk. I tried to ask him if he makes his own luck, how does he make it? He...

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simplychic Personally and based from the experiences of people i know, i do believe in good luck and bad luck. I don't believe that we make our own luck. Good luck comes from God if it's meant for us. What we can only do is to strive hard to show to God how dedicated we...

6 Sep 11

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Thinking positive helps ?

alberello @alberello (4752) • Italy 28 Aug 11

In life, talking to many people, I've always been advised to think positive. They told me that helps a lot, makes the mood even higher and shows a complex problem maybe slightly easier to overcome. I agree with this statement in...

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simplychic There are problems that we can't really solve just by thinking positive esp.in tough times or tragedies. However, it is true that no matter how difficult it is to think positive during our saddest times, thinking positive really helps. It may not always help...

6 Sep 11

Do you speak your mind when you see wrong being done???

sweetaprillynn @sweetaprillynn (207) • United States 6 Sep 11

I believe in right and wrong, and I always speak my mind. I think it is important for us all to take a stand when we see wrong being done, whether it be as minimal as bad remark, or as large as a physical assult. When you see...

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simplychic We all know what is right and wrong. However, to some people, their right and wrong are different from what we know. So, telling someone he/she is wrong depends on whether i know the person or not and the wrong thing done. If it's someone i know very well...

6 Sep 11

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Have you ever been a "CLOWN"?

whengcat @whengcat (1457) • Philippines 5 Jul 11

Hello friends and fellow mylotters! Well, I don't literally mean a clown with colorful costume and paint mask on here. It's just that have you ever been a "great pretender"? smiling and laughing eventhough inside you're really...

great pretender

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simplychic Yes, i can say that i've been a clown most of the time. But, i do have lots of problems and worries that sometimes i don't even know how to solve them. Even if i have a problem, i'm happy about the fact that i can still manage to smile and even laugh. I've...

6 Sep 11

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Who's The CLOWN That Always Makes You HAPPY?

Daddy Neil @neildc (17238) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 6 Sep 11

Hiya myLotters and friends! I remember about a year or two ago, Zay attended a birthday party. I wasn't there but I was told that he enjoyed the party. Only one thing that made him sit still beside his mom, a clown as he...

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simplychic My 7 yr.old son is the clown of my life. Whenever i'm sad or upset about something, he comes to me and asks if i'm ok. And, before i could even reply, he would start hugging and kissing me while showing me his big smile and saying mommy it's ok. Then, i would...

6 Sep 11

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Staying Home Or Working? Which is more difficult?

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85292) • Valdosta, Georgia 8 Aug 11

My husband and I often talk about this because like most couples the one that leaves the house always thinks they have it tougher than the one that stays home. Here is my thing about it though, my job is 24/7, 365 days a year....

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simplychic To me, staying home is more difficult than working, because even if one's work requires a big responsibility or stressful, work gives day-offs or rest days but working at home is a 7-days work and requires a lifetime of responsibility, commitment and...

8 Aug 11

Will you tell your Parents & Siblings if you were HIV positive after HIV test?!?

eryqmartinez @eryqmartinez (107) • Philippines 27 Mar 10

My bestfriend was diagnose as HIV positive after donating blood in one of the blood-letting project in their organization. No one knows this yet until he tells me the whole story and I promise not to tell to anyone else. He is a...

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simplychic Maybe i won't tell it to my siblings but i will tell it to my parents, because as their daughter, it is my responsibility to tell them everything that's happening to me. As our parents, they have the right to know everything about us, because if i were in...

8 Aug 11

Actions speak louder than words.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 16 Apr 10

When our actions are representative of our feelings, our affection for our fellow humans will always be evident in our behavior. Words can be misinterpreted and often carry little weight because of their fleeting nature. Actions...

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simplychic yes, i totally agree that actions really do speak louder than words, because i believe that mostly of what we feel would really show in our actions than in words. We can say all the sweet words even if we don't feel it, but it's hard to show it if we really...

17 Apr 10

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The In-laws

momathome @momathome (474) • Canada 4 Apr 10

Do you like your in-laws? My in-laws are the nicest people that I have ever met. I get along well with them. They would give you the shirts off their back if they could. My mother in-law could win a talking contest thats for sure...

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simplychic Honestly, the first time I saw them, I liked them, but I had no idea that they didn't want their son to be engaged with anyone because they didn't want him to get married. After a few months, they started being mean to me. They tried to do everything to ruin...

17 Apr 10

god

sinois @sinois (139) • Mauritius 7 Apr 10

Do you believe in god? if that`s the case what are your reasons, and if you do have faith , do you pray regularly or do you think that praying etc is not necessary as long as you have faith in god.

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simplychic yes, i do believe in God because i have lots of experiences that prove that there is a God. Miracles that are not just coincidence. Impossible situations that became possible whenever i would believe and pray. That is, praying and believing with my whole heart...

16 Apr 10

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Will you tell your Parents & Siblings if you were HIV positive after HIV test?!?

eryqmartinez @eryqmartinez (107) • Philippines 27 Mar 10

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simplychic If i were your friend, i would probably decide not to tell it to anyone too. But, for sure, I would tell it to my parents because they have the right to know. Try to ask your friend what if someone he loves so much is sick and dying, wouldn't he want to know...

16 Apr 10

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how to build trust from a friend?

jobmoone @jobmoone (442) • Philippines 16 Apr 10

Even though I can put trust to a friend still I can't rely to feel uneasy or having some doubts. Is this thing normal? I haven't had a lot friend to be with instead of this one.

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simplychic Yes, it's very normal to feel that way even to a friend because it's just right not to give our full trust to anyone even to a friend. There's a saying that you can't trust anybody because it's really hard to tell whom to trust. To be safe, we should not tell...

16 Apr 10

What would you do in such situation?

bananamen1 @bananamen1 (442) • Bulgaria 16 Apr 10

I'm a working mom and my mother takes care for my son during the day. Often there is a possibility to see him for short time in my lunch break when they both are out for a walk. It was OK until last week. But then he started to...

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working mom

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simplychic yes, it would help if you stop the afternoon visits because everytime he sees you leave, it makes him upset. Visiting him in the afternoon for only a few minutes and leaving him again so soon will only make him more upset. Seeing him when you go home after...

16 Apr 10

My lotters can you help me with this?

jpnnetwork @jpnnetwork (303) • Philippines 16 Apr 10

Im planning to put up an internet cafe, I am wondering how to control all my pc. Can anyone recommend me a software that I can use to my server which I can take a full control on PC's, set a timer, and monitor my...

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simplychic yes, handycafe is the software that we also use in our internet cafe.

16 Apr 10

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Do you comment on interesting videos?

ajrox1810 @ajrox1810 (992) • India 24 Aug 08

I watch a lot of funny and interesting videos over youtube, but hardly comment since it is kind of a long process and a lot of people in the comment box abuse each other. I think it is better to stay away from such things rather...

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simplychic Youtube is my favorite video site and i watch a lot of funny, cute and interesting videos too, but i rarely comment on those because i agree that most of the people giving comments there do use abusive comments toward each other. However, if the video is...

24 Aug 08

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