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sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 23 Jun 08

Alright so here goes..my boyfriend and I have our 2 beautiful chilren. We both have both gotten jobs today. He said he was going to take his first paycheck and buy a psp (game console). We got into a huge fight about it. Also we...

pay bills

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sturner03 I don't even want the game consiles in the house because he plays them excesivlly. That's all he does and then prides himself on being a good daddy when I'm doing everything myself.

30 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 23 Jun 08

Alright so here goes..my boyfriend and I have our 2 beautiful chilren. We both have both gotten jobs today. He said he was going to take his first paycheck and buy a psp (game console). We got into a huge fight about it. Also we...

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sturner03 I do control most of the money as much as I can, but I don't want it to have to be him seeing me as the bad guy. I just don't think he will ever grow up. It's a child raising children and it's makes me angry. You can make babies TAKE RESPONSIBLITY.

30 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 22 Jun 08

MY sister is 18 now and she had a child. She gave that child away to my older sister to adopt. Now that the process is done and over and the child is out of the baby fase she has decided that she wants him back. He is 10 months...

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sturner03 I wish she could be that, but I just don't see it happening. She has a big problem with substance abuse, and sleeping around with men that has always taken priority over her family.

24 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 22 Jun 08

MY sister is 18 now and she had a child. She gave that child away to my older sister to adopt. Now that the process is done and over and the child is out of the baby fase she has decided that she wants him back. He is 10 months...

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sturner03 This is very hard, because no matter what I say or how it is said she really believes that everyones attacking her. I don't think she will get him back, but this has all been very stressful on the family.

24 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 22 Jun 08

MY sister is 18 now and she had a child. She gave that child away to my older sister to adopt. Now that the process is done and over and the child is out of the baby fase she has decided that she wants him back. He is 10 months...

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sturner03 I feel like she was brainwashed into making this decision. For 9 months she was surronded by people telling her she couldn't do it. After you hear something long enough you start to believe it. And now she is far from ready.

24 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 22 Jun 08

MY sister is 18 now and she had a child. She gave that child away to my older sister to adopt. Now that the process is done and over and the child is out of the baby fase she has decided that she wants him back. He is 10 months...

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sturner03 She has filed for custody and there is a hearing going to court next month. She does have the chance to prove herself still. (leave it to Maine to let that happen)

24 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 22 Jun 08

MY sister is 18 now and she had a child. She gave that child away to my older sister to adopt. Now that the process is done and over and the child is out of the baby fase she has decided that she wants him back. He is 10 months...

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sturner03 Well she fialed for custody back of him and they are going to court next month to determain it. In her defense she has gotten a job but is still drinking and doing alot of drugs. I was 18 when I got pregnant with my first daughter and turned 19 right after she...

24 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 23 Jun 08

Alright so here goes..my boyfriend and I have our 2 beautiful chilren. We both have both gotten jobs today. He said he was going to take his first paycheck and buy a psp (game console). We got into a huge fight about it. Also we...

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sturner03 Yeah I know. He will pay the pays but only because his sister will take the check and cash it herself and spend it as needed. It's sad.

24 Jun 08

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sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 23 Jun 08

Alright so here goes..my boyfriend and I have our 2 beautiful chilren. We both have both gotten jobs today. He said he was going to take his first paycheck and buy a psp (game console). We got into a huge fight about it. Also we...

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sturner03 Sounds excally like what I have been going through. It is driving me crazy because he doesn't see it my way no matter how I explain it I am still wrong.

24 Jun 08

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sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 22 Jun 08

MY sister is 18 now and she had a child. She gave that child away to my older sister to adopt. Now that the process is done and over and the child is out of the baby fase she has decided that she wants him back. He is 10 months...

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sturner03 She says she gave him up because she didn't think she could handle it, she was only 17 when she got pregnant and she thought he needed a better home. Now it seems like she wants him out of power and convience. I never hear I love him I can't live without him I...

22 Jun 08

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sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 14 Jun 08

How do you deal with a baby/toddler that does nothing but wine to get there own way. I know it's my fault but how do I get on the right path to breaking that cycle?

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sturner03 We are at a cross with this. I understand the concept, there father thinks that if your not hurting them at least a little then they don't get the point of why your slapping.

22 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 14 Jun 08

How do you deal with a baby/toddler that does nothing but wine to get there own way. I know it's my fault but how do I get on the right path to breaking that cycle?

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sturner03 Thanks for the good advice I have been working on simular techniques with her. The hardest part is her determination she doesn't give up and doesn't forget.

22 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 14 Jun 08

So I figured all you parents might get a kick out of this little story. My daughter for those who don't know is almost 2. This morning her father was using the tv so I thought she'd find it cool that you can also watch movies on...

dora

dora the explorer

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sturner03 lol at least hes doing some educationial things too though!

15 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 14 Jun 08

So I figured all you parents might get a kick out of this little story. My daughter for those who don't know is almost 2. This morning her father was using the tv so I thought she'd find it cool that you can also watch movies on...

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sturner03 lol thats cute. Dora teaches good lessons and is helping my daughter learn new words.

14 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 14 Jun 08

So I figured all you parents might get a kick out of this little story. My daughter for those who don't know is almost 2. This morning her father was using the tv so I thought she'd find it cool that you can also watch movies on...

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sturner03 yeah she is very interested in how things work and were sound comes from and things like that so the computer is amazing invention to her.

14 Jun 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 29 May 08

I know somone very close to me that go pregnant. She was into alot of drugs and very confused mixed up young person. I'm not sure she knows who the father is. She was living with her parents the whole time she was pregnant. They...

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sturner03 Yes. She is 18. But the babies almost a year old now and he is bonded with the sister and all her other kids and the husband so is it really fair to take him away from all he knows because she doesn't come around everyday.

30 May 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 27 May 08

I need a fast answer for a home remedy to treat a yeast infection in my 4 month old. I just moved to Florida and low and behold you are not allowed to see a doctor without cash upfront. No one will see her. I've taken her to the...

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sturner03 Thank you thats awesome advice. We weren't sure if we should use monistat because she's an infant. That was going to be our next thing though.

29 May 08

sturner03 @sturner03 (326) • United States 27 May 08

I need a fast answer for a home remedy to treat a yeast infection in my 4 month old. I just moved to Florida and low and behold you are not allowed to see a doctor without cash upfront. No one will see her. I've taken her to the...

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sturner03 yeah it is really bad right now, and they keep giving us creams that aren't working. We have even tried home remedys we've found online. The doctors are making it out like it's our fault or we neglect her in some way.

29 May 08

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