tendernesstour

@tendernesstour (62)

United States • Age 60

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Does angry, dark music ever make you feel better?

vokey9472 @vokey9472 (1486) • United States 12 May 07

I was just wondering if anyone else feels better after listening to really dark, angry music. For instance, if I am feeling really stressed out about something listening to Marilyn Manson always makes me feel better. I don't know...

angry lyrics

dark music

gothic sounds

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tendernesstour I definitely have a deep appreciation for the therapeutic aspects of angry, dark music. Specifically, I listen to angry, dark music when I'm angry, depressed, sad, frustrated or simply struggling to express something deep inside. A prime example of...

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who is your favorite singer? why?

cinz20 @cinz20 (63) • Philippines 25 Mar 07

Can you tell me why and also what kind of music you like?

music

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tendernesstour My long-standing favorite singer is John Hiatt. Hiatt tends to play mostly in the areas of folk rock/rock, however, his inability to be pegged is part of why he's had difficulty attaining sales success. He's a widely respected songwriter, whose music and songs...

25 Mar 07

myspace.. a space for everyone!!!

omerta @omerta (90) • Philippines 25 Mar 07

who among you has a myspace account? how do you find myspace? for me myspace rockz... because i was able to know different cultures and races there. keep up myspace;P

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tendernesstour I love Myspace. I use it primarily for a small, all volunteer non-profit organization I run and we have greatly benefited from being on Myspace. I've found volunteers, donors, supporters, and board members from being on Myspace and virtually all of the...

25 Mar 07

How Many People Still Read Poetry And Who's Your Favorite Poet?

browneyedgirl @browneyedgirl (1264) • United States 20 Mar 07

I write poetry and love to read it. But I don't think it is read as much as in the old days. Do you read poetry? And if you do, who's your favorite poet? I don't think I really can say I have a favorite because I've enjoyed...

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tendernesstour I definitely still read poetry. My longstanding favorite poet is Charles Bukowski, and my favorite collection of his is "Love is a Dog from Hell." I'm also a fan of the beat poets, Etheridge Knight and some of the other African-American poets.

20 Mar 07

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Bumper Stickers.. Your Favorite Sayings.. Do you put them on your Car?

HeavenUnaware @HeavenUnaware (1757) • United States 20 Mar 07

I've seen alot of funny Bumper Stickers and wanted to hear some favorites from all of you. Do you put bumper stickers on your car? If so, what do they say? I do not have any bumper stickers on my car. I have one little sticker...

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tendernesstour My non-profit organization currently is using this one as a fund-raiser- "Everyone is Beautiful." I also really like "Compassion is Revolution," "God Bless the Freaks" and "When God Said Don't Love Your Enemies, I think He Probably Meant Don't Kill Them."

20 Mar 07

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whos ur oscar winner?

raj1971 @raj1971 (92) • India 17 Mar 07

if u were to give an OSCAR between "WATER" & "RANG DE BASANTI", WHO WOULD U GIVE? AND THE OSCAR GOES TO......???!!!!

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tendernesstour I would easily pick "Water," a film that was listed in my Top 5 for this past year. The performance by young Sarala was easily one of the best performances of the year.

18 Mar 07

have you got scoliosis

funkybutt @funkybutt (38) 4 Mar 07

i am a 23yr old with scoliosis, been going to docs hospital for years now and recently they said that i can have an operation on my back to correct my figure as im a bit wonky! but it wouldnt help any thing else, now i am someone...

health

scoliosis

vanity

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tendernesstour As an adult living with spina bifida, scoliosis has long been part of my life. While I've not yet required surgery, I think that's more because spina bifida simply gives someone higher priority for surgery (I've had over 50 surgeries in my life). I fail to...

18 Mar 07

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Every been in a walk-a-thon or anything like that?

cayennepepper @cayennepepper (266) • United States 16 Mar 07

When I was a teen I walked in three walk-a-thons. I walked 20 miles each time to help raise money. It was hard work and my feet were swollen all night each time, but it was worth it and I helped to raise a lot of money. I am glad...

charity

raise money

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tendernesstour I've actually organized many events over the year through the Tenderness Tour including an ongoing annual event with the Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence. I also have done long distance events (for example, Indianapolis to Chicago), and have ended...

18 Mar 07

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Do you give money to beggars?

paidmuse @paidmuse (30) • Denmark 18 Mar 07

Do you ever give money to people begging in the streets? I have done it a couple of times but I will usually rather help the organisations instead of a single individual.

beggars

people

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tendernesstour This is a loaded question for me. Have I ever? Of course, though I will usually find a way to help them with their "need" rather than just hand over money. For example, if someone says "I'm hungry. Can you spare a buck or two?" then I may very well...

18 Mar 07

Have you ever watched a movie in an empty cinema?

Zalvor @Zalvor (727) • Turkey 17 Mar 07

It happened to me. Twice! I was in a smaller town, I bought a ticket for The Scorpion King. By the time the movie should have started no other customer showed up! They decided to cancel it. I asked them "what is the least amount...

alone in the cinema

empty cinema

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tendernesstour This happens to me periodically. I see a lot of movies as I run a film review website and, periodically, I see really unknown films or I finally get around to seeing a film that has been out for awhile. One of the funnier recent times for this happening was...

18 Mar 07