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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline I feel like a ghost in my own life.

14 Feb 22

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline @askme123 No, we have never gone to any sort of counselling. I think we are beyond that point. I haven't reached out except on forums where my anonymity is assured. I've really been trying to look at how I am creating an environment where all of this nonsense...

14 Feb 22

wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 10 Feb 22

I've been thinking about how cut throat our society has become. Seems like every single business I deal with has some sort of scam going on. Not long ago I read an article where the very wealthy author was suggesting people get...

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wreckedfeline Yes, yes, it is very much like The Matrix. We treat the poor, the aged, the mentally ill, etc, as if they are nothing more than something to be harvested for whatever can be drained from them. As if they are just fodder for the machine.We now have laws that...

14 Feb 22

wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 10 Feb 22

I've been thinking about how cut throat our society has become. Seems like every single business I deal with has some sort of scam going on. Not long ago I read an article where the very wealthy author was suggesting people get...

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wreckedfeline Thank you, I appreciate your input. Here in the US things have gotten so out of hand. People don't even answer their phones anymore for fear of scammers. Just a few days ago a friend, who is elderly, went to a store to cash some winning lotto tickets and the...

14 Feb 22

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 10 Feb 22

I've been thinking about how cut throat our society has become. Seems like every single business I deal with has some sort of scam going on. Not long ago I read an article where the very wealthy author was suggesting people get...

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wreckedfeline I have given more thought to what you said, even if it was meant as a quip. Government, the lawmakers, let it happen to begin with. Even when it is illegal, our government will turn a blind eye if it is believed its agenda is served by allowing it. The good...

13 Feb 22

wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline No kids. I have 2 boys and a girl from my first marriage. They are adults now but still of an age where their opinions are unbending. They are disappointed in me for staying with him and don't come around much. My dream is to be the mother they need, even...

12 Feb 22

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline @askme123 I am so grateful to all of you for the support. I hope that your words find their way to others here who are going through this same thing. Your practical advice is a life preserver. Having a plan is such a foreign concept in a life of frantic self...

12 Feb 22

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline @askme123 Yes. I'm guessing you're asking about the physical aspect of abuse. He will be the death of me one day most likely. It is a strange thing to have to say that if I had to choose between physical or ambient abuse, I would choose a punch in the face....

12 Feb 22

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline Thank you. I've done just that and have a better idea of what I'm doing.

12 Feb 22

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 10 Feb 22

I've been thinking about how cut throat our society has become. Seems like every single business I deal with has some sort of scam going on. Not long ago I read an article where the very wealthy author was suggesting people get...

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wreckedfeline Heartless is right. It is no wonder our species is teetering on the line between survival and mass extinction. Our reality feels a lot like an episode of Star Trek. This is a line from an episode of the original series about an alien planet on the verge of...

12 Feb 22

wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 10 Feb 22

I've been thinking about how cut throat our society has become. Seems like every single business I deal with has some sort of scam going on. Not long ago I read an article where the very wealthy author was suggesting people get...

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wreckedfeline Politics is not what I was hoping for. Have you had any experience directly with being forced to do business with an entity that openly sets unfair terms? Like payday loan companies? That sort of thing.

10 Feb 22

wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline I have every intention of following your advice, which is spot on. Isn't it funny though how we tell ourselves we can't change someone else when we have, in fact, been changed so completely by someone else?

10 Feb 22

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline Thank you. You are right.

10 Feb 22

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline Thank you. That is kind of you to offer.

10 Feb 22

wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline It's possible that mentioning his nonemotional reaction to death was off center. He is most certainly a narcissist. I have had the experience of each and every thing a textbook narcissist does. You suggested that I take a hard look at how I have changed and...

10 Feb 22

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wreckedfeline @wreckedfeline (21) 8 Feb 22

The love of my life is a narcissist to the extreme. We've been together for 20 years. If you aren't familiar with what a narcissist is you can google it or just take my word for it. Narcissism is a personality disorder. A person...

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wreckedfeline Thank you, to each of you, for such well thought out responses. It takes time to read someone's issues and respond. That you took that time to try to add perspective to my problem is deeply appreciated. I see a common theme here. I need to focus on myself,...

10 Feb 22

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