zion45

@zion45 (70)

United States • Age 57

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Help I'm in a backward relationship

zion45 @zion45 (70) • United States 6 Jul 08

I know this might sound crazy, but I need to know how other people feel about this. I want to marry my girlfriend of over 7 years, but she doesn't believe in getting married. She say she loves me and is not going to leave. We have...

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zion45 Thank you for the web site. Unfornatly We live in a state that does not regonize common law. You have a lot of good points. We have discussed this a lot. I don't think she is going to change her mind. I am afraid if I keep bugging her I might push her away....

7 Jul 08

Help I'm in a backward relationship

zion45 @zion45 (70) • United States 6 Jul 08

I know this might sound crazy, but I need to know how other people feel about this. I want to marry my girlfriend of over 7 years, but she doesn't believe in getting married. She say she loves me and is not going to leave. We have...

11 responses •

5 people

zion45 You would think that. But her parents have been married for over 40 years and all her grandparent are still married. In fact we really don't know very many people that are divorced. She really does not believe in marriage. I knew she felt this way going in, I...

7 Jul 08

Help I'm in a backward relationship

zion45 @zion45 (70) • United States 6 Jul 08

I know this might sound crazy, but I need to know how other people feel about this. I want to marry my girlfriend of over 7 years, but she doesn't believe in getting married. She say she loves me and is not going to leave. We have...

11 responses •

5 people

zion45 I have asked her why several times. She says she does not believe in marriage. That we have a commitment to each other and don't need someone else or a piece of paper to say that we are a couple.

7 Jul 08

Help I'm in a backward relationship

zion45 @zion45 (70) • United States 6 Jul 08

I know this might sound crazy, but I need to know how other people feel about this. I want to marry my girlfriend of over 7 years, but she doesn't believe in getting married. She say she loves me and is not going to leave. We have...

11 responses •

5 people

zion45 I just want to be able to say she is my "wife". I know it sounds stupid. But I hate calling her my girlfriend after we have shared so much together.

7 Jul 08