What is LOVE?

April 17, 2007 4:56am CST
is it pain? is it hurting you? are u really happy after fallen in love? why ppl says pain is other name of love? friendship gives happyness and love always gives pain.... why so? if its true then why people still want to fall in love? tell me more about love....
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@touchnshine (2821)
• India
19 Apr 07
Love is wanting to be with the other person, and respecting them and protecting them. Love is love at any age. Don't analyze it, just enjoy it while you have it. I am 25 and had the usual teenage crush which was very intense. Now in a relationship which is more chilled and relaxed, but it is still love. Relationships and feelings change as you grow up you learn how to deal with those feelings more effectively (such as lust, or pain of being dumped). That's the only difference that age gives you on love. It still feels the same, though... damn good !
• India
20 Apr 07
thanks a lot, very good and matured response. i agreed that feelings changes as we grow up and we keep on learning with age. keep sharing, ur very good.
• India
21 Apr 07
Thanks dear :)
@prasad1961 (5603)
• India
17 Apr 07
Yes! It may be pain or sweet or waiting or any other. But getting conveniently and in our favor makes us more delighted. Today also I want to make the discussion in your place. But luckily you got the chance. Any how I'm posting the response as number one. It is mylot's 1000000th question or discussion. Feel proud yaar!
• India
18 Apr 07
thanks prasad for responding. and thanks for noticing that its one millionth discussion and ur the first person to respond. this LOVE matter is so deep, we always short of words to explain it. i hope i will get to know more and more about it. keep sharing ur views and thoughts. regards, bye.
@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
7 Apr 10
Love is not pain. There are times when love can be painful but usually these circumstances are to do with a long distance relationship, or a want for someone to do something to better themselves and yet they just don't or can't do that for themselves. Love is a very strange and mysterious thing, but the painful parts are not the ones that we should be focused on. Love is a wonderous thing.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
18 Apr 07
love may be pain or the sweet feeling.. it maty hurt you or may give u immense happiness.But its the one of the sweetest thing that can happen to a person. if u r not so lucky it can be a real pain.
• Australia
18 Apr 07
You can fall in love if you never broken heart. Love is something that God give to us, to take care other people and be a part of our life. Having someone we love can make us more happy than we live alone.