Motherhood is not for everyone!
By Mirita
@Mirita (2668)
United States
April 17, 2007 3:27pm CST
Motherhood is a blessing ,but is also a big responsability. Not everyone is ready to be a mother
because in my opinion our kids are always first. We need to provide a good life for our kids by making sure that all their needs are met. Every child deserves an education and to have clean clothes on their bodies. Also, a great deal of love, support and understanding is essential to most kids today. So many kids feel unloved and neglected and this is why their lives don't turn out to be as bright as they should be.
3 responses
@jcvernz (477)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
It is true that not all women are given the chance to be a mother. Me, personally i was so grateful and blessed when i delivered my first baby boy one year ago. It was a very momentous moment of my life. He is now 1 year and 5 months old and im doing my best to provide him everything from the clothes he wear, the food he intake and most of all i want him to feel that he was loved and cared most. He is my life...my world...my everything...and i was so thankful to GOD that i was given the chance to be a mother.I certainly believed that GOD has a very big purpose why he gave me my son and change my views in life for the better. His existence into my life was with a reason that i once knew.I felt so sad for all mothers who abandoned thier children.Children are blessings and precious gift from GOD that must be taken extra care and loved.
@patricia24 (568)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
im feeling the same way too. because at young age, im a mother now. I had a daughter, 6 months old and im just 20 years old. It was really a sacrifice to me because i dont have much time to myself. I dont do things like i used to do when i was single and i have to think my baby first before me.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
18 Apr 07
It's normal to feel that you don't have much time for yourself ,but I think that you are doing a wonderful job by putting your child first. You are very young ,so is normal to have those feelings ,but
I can tell that you love your baby more than anything. Things will get better and you'll see what a blessing it is to see her grow. By the way, she looks adorable in the picture.
@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
17 Apr 07
I agree. Once you become a mother, your whole world changes. You are now responsible for another human being. You can't just go out whenever you want or buy whatever you fancy. I usually put my son's needs before mine. It's sad that a lot of women and men as well do not take being a parent seriously.
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